2 pregnancy 1st baby

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So I'm 16 weeks as of today and with baby number 1 I m/c this week so I'm terrified..has anyone else had a m/c and already passed that week with there new baby. How do I not stress and freak out. I want this baby more than anything me and my boyfriend were so excited when we were.pregnant with our first and we were heartbroken when I lost him. Nothing was even wrong with him my water just broke. Well now everything is looking good so far and we are excited we got a chance again so soon. I m/c June 12 2014 and found out I was pregnant in August...any advice to keep my head grounded. Thanks

jolayla · Answer

Yes. I feel as though I can feel my baby move. It will get easier but I won't stop worry until the day he or she is supposed to be out.

domanessa123 · Answer

I think it ended up getting better and easier for me around the time I could feel my baby move because then I knew without waiting for ultrasounds and doctors appointments that he was ok

jolayla · Answer

Thank youu I'm trying too keep my thoughts positive

domanessa123 · Answer

So sorry about your loss it is definitely hard I had 2 m/c and I am 28 weeks pregnant with my baby boy it is hard not to worry the whole time but everything happens for a reason ya know just keep your head up and try to think about positive things stress isn't good for your little one I hope all goes well for you this time around :)

jolayla · Answer

Thank youu!!!! I really hope you get your chance soon.

ribaby15 · Answer

it's extremely hard not to stress/worry until that day comes - and even then it's hard to think everything will be okay because anything can happen. just try to enjoy the moments you have with this baby - and hopefully you make it to term so you can spend the next years raising and enjoying the new addition <3

jolayla · Answer

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Its the toughest thing you have to go through. My baby was still alive had a strong heart beat I delivered him and he couldn't survive outside the womb.. I hope you get a chance to have another baby and everything goes well I know I won't feel any better until I get to hold my baby but I just don't want to stress this week

ribaby15 · Answer

so sorry you went through that.
I don't have any good news for you.
just wishing you the best. 
I too found out I lost my little boy at my 16wk check up, he had no heartbeat and apparently died just a few days after my 14wk scan when everything was perfect.
same thing, no issues or infection - just heart stopped beating :(
we're trying again and hoping to get our rainbow baby this cycle.

thoughts are with you. you probably won't feel at ease until you deliver and hold the baby :( unfortunately