Baby 5 months & I'm PREGNANT..HELP***

[niqua123]

Hello everyone.. my baby boy turned 5 months December 15, 2012 i jusy found out i'm 5 weeks pregnant..:-( I lost alot of blood while giving birth, went through two blood transfusions and fainted as well during my stay at the hostipal. As i was having my cesection the doctor stated i could die or baby could die if i decide to have another baby. With my son being only 5 months my hubby wants me to get abortion. I really want to talk about everything but he say he doem't want to talk about it. I really need advice please can everyone comment...pleaseee help

[niqua123]

I will hun:-)

[GordonBaby]

I totally agree with KTowne.... See a doctor, you may go through this one with no issues at all : ) Anything is possible. Good luck and keep us updated if you wish to.

[niqua123]

I def will hun...^^

[niqua123]

thanks everyone.. everyone is so supportive... i cried alot and this all seem so unreal... i will make an appiontment to view my option of keeping baby. i will keep everyone informed on what decision i make based on my health. Thanks:)

[samii93]

Yea you should deff check with your Dr. Or a different one. My mom had a c/s at 6 months. With my sissy .she was preemie. My mom had a blood transfusion and the Dr. Told her her heart stopped for a while too .  But she had two more healthy children after that ,even being high risk.  :)

[KTowne]

abortion? because you had a rough first delivery doesn't mean you will this time.. there are ways to prevent that again.. my best advice meet and discuss your situation with a doctor (maybe not the same one..sounds like he was giving you a one way street telling you if you EVER have another child again you can die or baby can die.) before making any decisions.. i would never forgive my husband if he EVER said the word abortion to me, ever.. my body, my child, my decision, my friend had a c-section and then found out at her 6 week check up she was pregnant again, of course there were risks involved such as placenta previa, etc. (which she never got) but she did GREAT and she has a very healthy 2 year old now. my SIL also had a c-section the first time and had a blood transfusion, her 2nd went soo good and she had no issues at all.. so i would meet with a doctor find out the real risks and if it's possible to carry this baby, then talk to your husband about it, congratulations and good luck hun! we were close in due dates with our last babies i remember!

[Alexiafaye]

If it will risk your life or the baby's then I would say yes that's an understandable option. But I would go to the doctor and ask them for sure if that's the case. Don't jump into something without knowing all the facts : )

[RoopStetter]

If this pregnancy is risking the health of everyone involved including your own life I would definitely consider an abortion. You have a son who needs you and a husband who loves you. Maybe of will work out farther down the line but you are risking so.much right now. I wish you the best of.luck and I'm sending prayers your way

[Lakita12]

If its life threatening u should consider an abortion ..