Father Issue? Early Labor?

[33bree]

I am currently 35 weeks today as of December 9th! I am still concerned on who the father is of my son? I has sex with father number 1 April 20th! I then had sex with father Number2 on the 27th of April! I just want opinions on who the father might be? We are all getting a dna test but I sort of just want to feel who is most likely the father? Also, another concern of mine is I am leaking like a white stringy discharge? Is that a mucous plug or something? I got this really tense feeling in my stomach that I been feeling for a couple days. I think it is from all the stress but still not sure. I already been to the doctor about a week ago because I thought I was leaking amniotic fluid because I been feeling wet all the time, and yet this has not stopped!! I wake up wet and its like every time I sneeze or cough I sort of Pee Myself and feel a little gush! PLEEASE HELP THANK YOU!

[Roxannee3]

your very welcome!

[33bree]

Thank You. :)

[Roxannee3]

Based on your due date- your conception date is between April 16 - April 23rd.
But you might still need a dna, just to be on the safe side! You should def get that fluid checked, it could be urine when I was that far along & I sneezed or coughed a little usually came out, but if it is amniotic fluid the doctor will probably want to keep an eye on it. The stringy white discharge is probably just discharge which is completely normal, when I lost my mucas plug it was clear slimy idk what to call it, but I noticed it once I went to the restroom & whipped, the stuff was like never ending. & like stated above you could be having braxton hicks, or it could just be the baby is big & doesn't have as much room!! It's probably nothing to worry about! You should really try to not stress I know it's better said than done, but stress puts a strain on the heart, & that could put a strain on the babies heart, not saying it will but it could.

I hope you have a safe & stress free last 5 weeks ( if you last the whole 5 weeks! )

[33bree]

i went to the doctor and all they did was check to see if my thing was open and it wasnt so i assume it wasnt amniotic fluid.

[33bree]

my due date is january 14

[SunWorshiper_26]

Peeing yourself here and there is normal this late in pregnancy but it can't hurt to have it checked out. Sounds like you are also having brackton hicks contractions which are practice contractions they are no fun but normal at this point. As for who's the father there isn't a way to know without a DNA test. Sorry

[ladyofthesea]

When's your due date?

[emmiemac]

i ended up having my baby at 33 weeks as i was leaking fluid gradualy for a while and didnt realise what it was just go and get checked its safer than leaving it too late. I lost all my fluid and baby had stopped moving (he was fine in the end) but better to sort things now rather than too late

[33bree]

How can you tell if it is amniotic fluid? Is there any signs or should I just go in?

[33bree]

thank you. :)

[fadingsun]

My sister had the same thing with leaking fluid toward the end of her pregnancy.  She thought she was peeing herself.  Turns out she was leaking amniotic fluid and she ended up having the baby about 2 weeks early.  I would get it checked out just to be safe.  You don't want to end up with an infection or something.

[Tryingforbaby2]

I wish I could help you on who the father is but there really isn't a way to tell because we don't know what day you Ovulated and what day implantation happend. A week between really doesn't give us much to work with. I wish you the best on this as I am sure it has been a long and stressful 35 wks. You have made it this far though. As for the mucus plug, when mine came out I saw the whole thing and it was a pinkish color and really looks kinda gross. The "peeing yourself" is normal. There is so much pressure on your little bladder right now that this is completely normal. I would put a call in to your Dr again about the mucus if you are still concerned, it is their job to help you :)