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1995033 tn?1334163103

Going through labor alone?

My boyfriend is in the isolation unit in the hospital for pneumonia and they dont know when he will be released. And im getting induced wednesday... How difficult will labor by myself be? :(
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2095738 tn?1339825243
You can ask your doc about using skype as well. If he can't be there in person, they should allow him to coach you and meet baby via video
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2187006 tn?1346698119
My baby's dad was supposed to be going Afghan beginning of October when our little boy is due but THANKFULLY he's been rescheduled to go in April. Good luck :) I'm sure you'll be fine :D x
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3104777 tn?1363885649
If your induction is not medically necessary you may be able to talk with your doctor about putting it off a few days. Otherwise maybe this might be a good opportunity for you and your stepmother to bond. Children change relationships and if you both want it maybe she can be the support you need right now
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What about other family members? And that's not true, he will love his daughter just the same!! He would be there if he could. :) sorry you're having to stress about this!
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1995033 tn?1334163103
I got rid of all my friends when I got pregnant because they are bad influences... And my mom is a low life druggie. Me n my stepmom dont really get along but shes all I have I guess... Im so depressed right now. I feel like since he wont be there he wont be as close to our son as he is with his daughter sinve he saw her being born...
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2013578 tn?1341812012
have a close friend or hire a doula to be there with you... You are a strong woman and this is what our bodies are made to do you will get though it one contraction at a time...hopefully your boyfriend will be better soon so he can help after the baby is born
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2070825 tn?1337225969
My baby daddy won't be there. I'm having my mom, my cousin, and a friend who is a massage therapist with me
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Like the poster said above me... Invite a close friend, your mom, or family mom. It's do able, but the support will make your labor much better! With my second, my fiance missed the birth of our son. I had a c section and did it by myself. I was lonely, but I managed.
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187316 tn?1386356682
Military wives do it all the time. With my first her father was barely there. Best thing to do is invite a close friend or your mom. Its always nice to have someone lean on.
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