HELP ! am i fine & over reacting or will i become pregnaunt

[justmemarie]

hi, im 15 years old , even though i already know the chances are low i just want to explain the situation and get advice from older and more experienced people. Here it goes:
me and my boyfriend were having safe sex &when we went into a different positon it came out, and he went to put it back in and he missed and it hit my upper thigh.. i turned around cuz i kinda heard a sound(the condom) and maybe to help hiim but then saw the condom was broke and his whole penis was out... he didnt *** but there was pre *** still in the broken condom when we took it off ... he said he hasnt cummed in two days and took severl bathrrom breaks ,... also later that night i got my period , but it was really light and discolored , but it is now fine .  
its now 3 days after & we considered getting the day after pill just in case but there was no way of us getting it & also my mother wants to start me on birth control on sunday and im scared to cuz i know that it can harm a baby ... i would take it but now im scared im going to become pregnaunt and harm it ..
am i fine and just over thinking and worring about it ?
should i start the birthcontrol and not worry?
HELP please im just having bad anxiety

[JoyRenee]

Pre-ejaculate still contains sperm and can still cause you to become pregnant. However ovulation occurs about 2 weeks before your period. If you had your period right after sex then you're not pregnant; the egg is no longer viable (alive; ready for fertilization).

Your cycle works on hormonal shifts and learning about what happens and when can better help you understand your fertility.

[chezross]

stress will delay your period. but if your sexually active (albeit underage) birth control is THE most sensible thing you can do. for the pill to be effective it has to taken correctly and may i suggest condoms as well as the pill, as the pill wont protect you from sexually transmitted infections.

[justmemarie]

so should i start the pill , since i recently became sexually active and also since im prob not going to be pregnaunt from this encounter? im just stressing because it was the first time i had sex and the condom ripped, even though he didnt ejaculate

[justmemarie]

thank you so much , and my boyfriend didnt c*m , just pre came . so i think ill be fine and it wont stay in me .
im just stressing out to much i hope. but everyones comments help me calm down alot , thanks !

[coffeebuzzedliz]

I was on the pill for the first 3 or 4 weeks during my pregnancy and when I told the Dr. he told me not to worry that baby would be fine and he was right. They obviously dont want you taking birth control when pregnant but for a month when you dont know you should be fine. And I would be REALLY surprised if you got pregnant from that encounter.

[Clysta]

If you're pregnant though being on Birth Control can cause miscarriage, and some cause birth defects. If you read about different birth controls they're labeled as a Category X drug.

[chezross]

being on the pill doesnt harm a baby, your preventing yourself getting pregnant so there is no baby to harm, its the most sensible thing to do if your sexually active at 15 to go on birth control :) i doubt your pregnant too from this encounter.

[vmvnpv]

You can't get pg any time of the month.  Only when you're ovulating.  There needs to be an egg present for the sperm to fertilize.  BUT sperm can stay in your vagina up to 7 days (if the conditions are right) so that means if you have sex 5 days before you ovulate you can still get pg.  Maybe some reading and health classes would help you more before having sex at such a young age.

[sweetpea03]

You can take a home pregnancy test at any time. For it to be accurate, you have to take it at least 2 weeks after having sex or after you missed your period for it to be accurate. I would not recommend taking a test before you missed your period, unless it's already been 2 weeks since having sex, as said earlier.

You can only get pregnant when you ovulate, but unless you are closely keeping track of when that is by using a few different measures, then it is best to always be careful when having sex. Using a condom and another form of birth control is the best way to go to avoid pregnancy.

You will start the birth control pill the Sunday after your period ends, which is typically when doctors will tell you to start it. Though make sure to discuss these concerns with your doctor when he or she prescribes the pill to you.  

[justmemarie]

i heard you can get prego any time of the month though ? but most fertal at ovulation

So should i just start the birth control tonight and stop worrying if im pregnant?

[justmemarie]

well it WAS actually my period because i still have it now& as the days went on it became heavier and much more normal but still discolored.
and about the pregnauncy test i thought you can only take one like after your missed period or like 5 days before it?

[vmvnpv]

If you actually got your period that night then you're not pg.  You only get pg when you ovulate and obviously you didn't ovulate the day you got your period.  :-)

As for the situation.....DON'T EVER PUT A CONDOM BACK ON!  If it comes off PUT A NEW ONE ON!  If you reuse the same condom then you are NOT having safe sex and are increasing your chances of getting pg.

[Clysta]

Well it's too late for the Plan B pill, not to mention you would have to get a doctor prescription for it because you're underage. (unless your parents bought it for you) As for if you can become pregnant, it's possible but unlikely. How long did this bleeding last? If it was for a day or a night, I highly doubt it was a period. More likely due to irritation or being rough. If it's been at least two weeks since you last had sex you can take a pregnancy test with first morning urine. If it's negative, you can assume you're not pregnant. Also when you start the pills. Be warned---You have to use protection (condoms) for the first month or so until the pills become effective. You will also have to use condoms for 48 hours if you miss any pills or take them improperly as well.