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2181422 tn?1400511380

Husbands, boyfriends, or baby daddies

I just wanted to throw a post out there about all these wonderful guys out there. I am truely blessed to have an amazing husband who works so hard so that I can be a stay at home mom to our 3 year old and soon to be new born. We come from two very different families and that seems to be the only big issue we seem to come across in our relationship but even with that stress its nothing compared to what some couples go through. My husband made me a nice bath before going out to buy the bat man movies for me so we can have a marathon date night leading up to the premier of the brand new one! I know he's tired from work. And stressed from anything under the sun but he still tries and tries to make sure our family is happy. I think sometimes I don't realise all the little things he does for me and may take then for granted at times. Sitting here in the bath waiting for him to come home writting this about him has got me in tears * dang hormones lol* any who enough about me and my amazing guy feel free to tell about yours Id love to hear about em and with all the stress the us ladies go through with pregnancy and life I think its time to give the good guys a shout out (:
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3109932 tn?1347067940
Well im Going thru this pregnancy without the father being present but im happy for you and your family (:
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2199900 tn?1338759215
Well Congrats to u and urs! I wish I had an amazing man like that but unfortunately I dont. But God has step in and provided me with strength
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2181422 tn?1400511380
Awe I am sorry but I give you huge props for doing that on your own. I'm sure its hard! thank you for your support. I guess even single ladies should get a shout out to for how hard they have to work and how strong they need to be. They have to be both mommy and daddy! Congrats on your baby!
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1999115 tn?1332265324
I've been w/ my boyfriend for a year and 3 months . But we were talking for almost a year before that. this is our first child together, and it's amazing how much he's grown up since finding out I'm pregnant. He does ALOT for me already, always wanting and trying to make me happy and succeeds every day :) I can just imagine the kind of father he's gonna be to our son !
it really does blow my mind how much we take our s/o for granted. and it really is little things that make us happy.
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My hubby has been extremely helpful :) he has been working overtime and does little stuff to help me stay comfy (as if thats even possible sometimes!) He always reminds me to not push myself too hard especially when i go on my cleaning sprees lately! I am very lucky girl to have him and when i tell him i feel bad that he does so much for me he always tells me im giving him the world by carrying his son in my belly! This is ourr first baby together and our little Bradley is due in 31 days!
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2181422 tn?1400511380
Awe! That's so good of him to step up for you guys mommytobe12! It really is the little things and I swear I need to reconginze them more often!
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2181422 tn?1400511380
Mrscude2010 I always love when they try and be protective by not letting us over do it. Sometimes we need reminding! Congrats on your little one I hope delivery goes well for you!
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3130505 tn?1342473671
The baby dad is no longer with me, but my father has stepped up in my life. He is babying me and his grand daughter... I have to say I rather have my father than a guy who treats me badly!! (: Good guys rock!
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2181422 tn?1400511380
Anyone else have good guys or support system even?
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1972798 tn?1355549267
My husband is wonderful. I was headed to church yesterday and he said if wait a minute and ran in the house and came back our with a free coffee cars and said here go get yourself a coffee.. I know it sounds silly but I drive away in tears cuz it was so thoughtful. He has been working 60+ hour weeks so I can be home. I am due in 9 days with our first. He has definitely stepped up in helping around the house too with doing dishes and cleaning up. Its been great.
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2009129 tn?1335370857
Do you ever feel like you don't show them how much you appreciate them enough? My husband does so much and sometimes I feel like all I do is complain about how we don't have enough money or other things. Today, during my 3 hour blood glucose test, he went to the medical supply store downstairs and got a maternity support belt because I've been in so much pain. He even knew what size I needed. I'm just overjoyed at how much my comfort means to him.
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I have the most amazing guy by me. He does everything he possibly can for me so I dont have to. He is my whole support system as I dont habe my family. He is the most amazing dad to our 22month old son and im proud to be now giving him a daughter. I really do feel the luckiest girl in the world and im really proud to call him my fiancee. :-)
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2177976 tn?1342045640
i have the best hubby to , i mean i love him this is number 3 for us n like you said u are a stay home mom that will be nd the next month ( im dont know how that's going to work ) but he hate that i work , i only work 2 days away or one weekend out the month , but we are good ( he is the best, he make sure im ok at all time's no matter what my house hold is.( i dont have my mom any more she died when i was like 13 and my dad is still around he is wonderful to... i love just to sit and the house with him on his day's off he work for long hours but he still have the time to cook cuz he love to cook i don't know where he come but all i can say thank you god for giving him to me ,
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362249 tn?1441315018
Congrats to all of u that have an amazing guy helping! you re all blessed to have a great family!

My babys daddy wont even claim him even after i agreed to the dna test and it came back 99% positive he still has a reason my son isnt his and he made my pg extremly hard!!
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My fiance is the sweetest he does so much for me I'm very tired and exhausted all.the.time so he cleans up some of the house.for me along with going to work everyday he always makes sure iv had enuf to eat and that I'm feeling okay he Is so stressed and is convinced he doesn't deserve me but I am so lucky to be having a baby with someone so amazing and great as him he is going to be an amazing daddy he is part of the reason iv been able to keep it all together I love him with all my heart and I hope that our lives continue to be so good x
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I have a wonderful husband. We are young only 19 and 20 but have been married for 2 years. He treats me like a princess. Everyone doubts our marriage because we are so young but I couldn't be happier! We are both so excited to have our first baby in a few weeks. He is in the military and works so hard then comes home and caters to me. Anything I need or want he is there to provide it!
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My husband can be amazing, but mostly he is just a big kid & adds more stress :(
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My husband is amazing! I'm am 32 weeks and have been working full time through my whole pregnancy. We just moved into our first house and got a puppy since finding out we are having our first baby. So needless to say things have been extra stressful at times. But he really keeps me going. He has been more than helpful doing dishes cleaning the house changing cat litter letting the puppy out at night. He even makes my lunches for work. I am truly blessed! Its great that you posted this shout out. All too often we take the good guys for granted. But there really ate great guys out there. And if you haven't found one yet don't give up hope! They come when you least expect it!!
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I love mine like crazy...but yours sounds better want to trade? Lol

Nan, my boyfriend is great  he's letting me be a stay at home gf so that he can make sure nothing bad happens to me. He also buys me whatever I need. Hes just not connected to the pregnancy like I want him to, he's petrified to touch my belly.
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2129193 tn?1342539411
I have an amazing fiance. He works full time while I'm at home. Of course I do the whole cooking and cleaning but he does so much for me. He's always making sure I'm comfortable. The only thing is he's more strict than my dr lol my dr allows me to drink coffee and soda but in moderation and my hunny won't let me drink any coffee or coke :( and makes me eat healthy. He's a little crazy hahaha. He tells me "I'm not going to let you indulge in sweets and coffee I don't want the baby to come out all cracked out lol
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1998326 tn?1447103765
Would not be able to go through this pregnancy without my awesome husband! Especially since we are going to be doing Hypnobirthing, which is very involved with your 'birth partner', in my case, my husband.
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3094227 tn?1340939908
That's. Wonderful knowing it's guys like that out here.unfortunately me even being a good woman to an unappreciative man.I feel I may need to deal with my pregnancy and parenting on my own because trying with him I believe may be stressful and I don't want to deal with it.I never thought I'd be the female to go threw this but hey it's life and I'm not the only one it happened to.I just kno I'll be the best mother in the world for my child .
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Me and hubby have had a few arguements but that's to be expected in any relationship and thanks to prego hormones it made it worse then it was.... but my man is amazing he is so helpful and sweet to me he works all day and still comes home and helps me out without him I'd be completely lost and alone in this world he is literally my one and only we've been together over a year and a half and are completely in love with one another but still haven't said those 3 little words but... we both kno how.we feel and he shows me he loves me everyday in every action he does :-) he really is my soul mate my best friend and the man I'm going to spend my forever with
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3094227 tn?1340939908
That's sad u don't need him..men walk out on kids like there a bad thing .your child is precious and u don't need no guy like that in u and your son life..my BF didn't even want me to have my baby cause he has three.now he wanna play that roll like he's gonna be there.but eveyrytime we argue u steady telling me u didn't want me to have the baby.well u have  3 other kids who's DOIN fine without you I can make mines the fourth.my sister bd didn't claims hers either til child support gave a DNA test..he's not around and my nephew has and get everything and anything.more then any other kid I kno.i kno mines will be the same cause I have support.  Take care ladies and I wish the best whether your a single parent or have the father around
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