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I dont think im ready
So I think I dont want to have this baby im still unsure ... this stressing me out very much .... like do I still have options ? Im 10 weeks
It's a truly personal choice, Im not religious in any way,but I do think things happen for a reason. I got pregnant by accident at beginning of the year,I never wanted children.. Then I got my head round it and got excited,but sadly lost it. Me and my bf decided to try for one as we both then wanted it. This decision will stay with u the rest of your life..if I was in your position I would carry the baby full term,give birth,then see if maternal feelings kick in..if they don't then the baby has a chance at life with one of the millions of couples who can't conceive who will adopt. If you abort then you aren't giving you or the baby any chance.. The babies heart starts beating at 6 week (approx) so it's now a life. But whatever you do decide then make sure it's your decision as you have yo live with it..and speak to a friend/family member who will support any decision.. Good luck xxx
Only you can make the decision no matter what anyone on here says. If you don't feel like you can last the entire pregnancy then abortion is best for you (i'm pro-CHOICE), if you do and still can't manage a baby when it's born then adoption. Since me and my baby's father broke up i constantly feel like i can't cope and don't want my baby at times but at 24 weeks there isn't much i can do and i know i'll love him when he's here. It's totally normal to feel down about it all because your body is going through so much and changing drastically. Talk to your doctor about it and ask to be referred to a counsellor for some more advice on all your options. I wish you the best of luck x
Hey sweets ;) I am a aunt of a lil one that I am soooo glad my nicees mother decided to have her...and she is also ;)...she was scared to death unsure and stayed in compleat denile but she chose to keep her ;) my brother and her were together 10 yrs never had a kid broke up...hooked up a yr later and had beautiful baby claire she is now 1 ;) they r not still together but we all help and do wht we can for the both of them and that sweet sweet girl...just meditate serch ur inner sole and ull decided for u...remember God has a plan for us all and he is always good...
Once you feel your baby move...hear its heart beat...its the best feeling ever...not everyone gets blessed to conceive...bringing a life into this world is a crazy feeling n a great experience :)
You should find someone you trust and talk to them about this, hun. It's a really big decsion on what ever you decide and you need to be 100% sure that's what you want. Just know that you're not alone and there are options. I went through a really bad depression spell where I told my fiance's mom that I was just going to give him the baby when he's born and leave. I told her I didn't want to see or touch or hear my baby. It was when things were rough with me and my fiance and she helped me through it. I'm more than excited to be having my baby in almost a month now. You're pregnant, your hormones are crazy right now and it's hard to make such a big decision on your own. Let alone make one that you might regret deciding on while you're emotional. Just find someone you're confortable with and that won't judge you and lay out all your feelings, options, and reasons and go from there. Good luck, hun! Do what you feel is best! Also don't let it get to you about unprotected sex, sometimes things happen. It's happened to alot of people. Even condoms and birth control aren't 100%. Good luck. :)
Its pretty obvious your options are keep your baby, adoption, or abortion. For you to decide. Talk to a counselor, family member, or a friend.
Im 26 been with my husband forever and still think to myself wtf am I doing?!?we planned to get pregnant but im still scared and unsure of myself. I think its normal to feel like you're not ready or at least I hope it is.:) Talk to family or someone close to you about your feelings..
The baby father is super excited and wants the baby so im feeling kinda stuck . This pregnant happened when were broken up ...
I dont think its our place to say as to whether she gets an abortion or opts for adoption. I think if your not ready to have this baby u have some thinking to do. dont get me wrong I wouldn't get an abortion nor would I adopt so id fight through my feelings everyone is different..you need to decide what you are going to do fast! dont feel bad for feeling like this. what does your heart say!!
Sometimes I get really depressed and think im not ready for a baby... obviously I know I shouldnt be have sex unprotected but things happened
Adoption! There are people around the world who can't have kids & adopting one is the best option.
& don't let rude comments get to you. Think things out before making any rash decisions. Remember that a child is a blessing:)
& don't let rude comments get to you. Think things out before making any rash decisions. Remember that a child is a blessing:)
adoption. if you weren't ready you shouldn't have had unprotected sex. some days you'll feel like this. don't do anything you'll regret.
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