Is my girlfriend pregnant ??

[BlueFish13]

Okay so my girlfriend and I (17yo) had sex for the first time. It was the day before her period was due, I wore a condom the whole time and I didn't ejaculate at all. She isn't on the pill. Now she is 18 days late on her period. She hasn't taken a hpt because we are to scared. I don't know what to do. Is she pregnant? Why else would she be so late? Also our parents can't find out.. please help?

[WinnieMaxine]

I would say no she isn't pregnant, when I first met my boyfriend although it was not my first time he was the first to pop my cherry and after that i didn't have my period for so and so weeks which offset my whole cycle.
Stress is also a big factor of it. If you stress out too much it can change your cycle or make you late. Trust me as long as you were safe, and on top of that didn't ejaculate then you're fine.
If you need some reassurance go buy a pregnancy test for her:)

[mumma2bee]

I don't think it's possible she is pregnant. .... at all. Unless there have been other times you guys had sex since then (maybe a week after her period ended which is usually when a girl is fertile) but be a gentleman, go buy her a test.  I don't think she isn't testing cause she is afraid of the outcome, I think she is too embarrassed to buy one.  If you are too, ask an older friend, or a more sexually experienced friend who had probably had to buy one in the past to go get it for you:) don't worry to much hun.  I had baby #1 at 17, had #2 at 20 n #3 is on the way at 21 years old.  I have the most amazing little family.  Only one of these children was planned but I survived and so did my boyfriend.  Don't panic,  be a sweetheart n be supportive,  cause if your not supportive,  chances are she won't want to have sex with you again. I understand you not wanting parents to know,  and I don't think you should feel bad about what you guys did.  It's totally normal n natural to have sex,  and I don't know ANYONE who wanted their parents to know when they started having sex.  So just relax,  go buy a test,  tell her it's all ok,  wait with her while she takes it,  and no matter what the result is you should hug her n accept her feelings (she might be sad, happy, confused or whatever else,  whether it's positive OR negative). Good luck!

[roxrev]

I thought I was pregnant like 3 times, and each time I took a test and it was negative, id get my period the next day. Very unlikely that she is pregnant, good job for being safe but still better to not take the chance at all!

[Ellie033]

If it was the day before she was supposed to get her period, then no. She cannot be pregnant. And the only time you can delay your period is pre-ovulation. She may have had some stress at that time which could delay her period. If she is stressing out about it, she can get a cheap test from the dollar store. They are still accurate. It may be once it comes back negative, she'll relax and her period will come. A great book to read is called Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Very educational.

[jmurmac]

Probably not :)

[adreaona]

Yeah condom and not cumming=no baby unless you know some spillage happened with the precum. This ought to scare you though lol. Bad first time experience huh? I'm just playing..:p

[Bree61714]

It could be that it was her first time. When I first lost my virginity my period came late.

[MrsLatney]

Good luck hope this helps...o n if all turns out in ur favor pregnancy scares are a good way to reevaluate ur plans in life and ur relationship. If u dont c urself marrying the person in the future or being with them forever u shoudnt sleep with them - this is my own personal rule of thumb i go by :)

[MrsLatney]

Could be stress y she is late n im guess she is around ur age so her period is still trying to get on track. But u should take a pregnancy test not taking one isnt going to change the outcome u need to just take one so u can kno if she isnt you both should have a talk about what u guys would do if she was like ^^she said if ur too scared of ur parents u mite not be ready for a baby so dont risks the chance i kno teen hormones may be a ragin but take ur time ur young n got ur whole life for sex honestly.Now if she is u guys will def. have to tell ur parents n decided ur future plans together

[louella13]

We cant tell you or not but a test can = )

[InsaneRoman]

If you were wearing a condom properly and you didn't ejaculate, then I'd say the chances are pretty slim. But I'm not gonna lie, it IS possible. Even with perfect use a condom is only such and such % effective.

What I think is most likely is her freaking out. You mentioned it was her first time. She may be petrified of getting pregnant and stressing herself into a late or missed period. At this point I'd take a test because her period IS late but still.

Also, not trying to lecture you guys, hun, but if her parents "can't find out" then maybe you shouldn't be doing it. You know the stress you're both feeling right now? Alone and having to come online to ask for help when you're scared? And if she is/was to get pregnant? Then what? You going to leave her to handle it alone because you're just as confused as her but you can't tell your parents? Is it worth that stress? :(

[Nina159]

Stress can make her late and u used protection so it unlikely she is