Just venting about Husbands in the TWW!

[julz034]

Do you ever feel like hurting your DH's in the TWW?? My emotions are ALL over the place. I really just don't even want him to be around me. Is it the stress or what?? I'm getting pissed cause he doesn't see my faint BFP's... he thinks I'm being irritational (ok I may be!) but still why don't they realize what we go through during this time! **cries** I DON'T understand, but I can't take much more. I wish he'd go fishing or do SOMETHING!

[Princessdaniella]

You are more than welcome and I wish You all the best. I hope You are able to get through this and get what You want and need in the end of it. Everything good is worth fighting for it may take patience and unfortunately effort but in the end it is well worthwhile.
Men can seem to be so cold as they do not experience what us woman do but hopefully he will stay more understanding
best of luck

[julz034]

We talked last night, he said he knows how I feel (yeah right) but he was at least trying to be more understandABLE! Men just don't "get it" for whatever reason. I explained to him that we attach to our child before we even conceive, it's just in our nature, so longing for a baby, and trying to already bond with something that may not even be there is hard, it's harder when you keep getting faint positive's and BFN's you just want to know. I broke down and cried, and then I felt better. I think he finally is starting to understand more why I feel the way I do. Thanks so much ladies for writing back. It helps to no I'm not just being crazy!!

[Princessdaniella]

Is it possible to speak to him when you feel as though it would be a good time and You have calmed down and explain it to him, he may be able to understand more and be more supportive.
It is understandable.

[tryingfor6years]

Totally understandable.....  remember that you're thinking about this MUCH more than he is AND you're hormonal. Yes, it's the stress... try not to worry too much. Do your best to explain to him how your are feeling when you are in a calm place and just ask for some support.