Miscarriage

[volcomishot]

Sorry to be a downer, but I need to know.
Anyone else go through a miscarriage? How did you ease the pain?

I found out today I'm probably in the middle of a miscarriage, my hcg level was very very low, bleeding, and horrible cramps/pain.

[shellc428]

Ive had 2. Im soooo sorry. The heating pad does help. Emotionally , you feel however you need too. I layed in bed and cried for a day. I grieved the baby that I really wanted.  My husband took the day off work to watch our other kids and I just spent the day alone. Feeling however I needed too. Big hugs for you ♡

[volcomishot]

I was five in a half weeks...
Last night was horrible, worst pain in my life, almost went to the ER. Today still bleeding and minor cramps. Go in tomorrow to have my blood drawn again for hcg level and to get an exam. But I know after yesterday, there is no baby anymore ):
It's very sad, I've never cried so much, I didn't think I was as attached as I was because I knew there was chance that this could happen. But as everyone says things happen for a reason.
Thank you ladies for your responses, it makes it a little easier knowing what to expect and even complete stangers care.

[SOLrawr]

I've gone through three. You never really get over it, youll know how strong you are when you become pregnant again. Cry if you need too. It's okay.

[killakitten]

I am so sorry :( I am worried right now as well I am 8 weeks and started bleeding today too :( I have no cramps and have an ultrasound tomorrow praying for the best... keep your head up my doctor told me 25% of woman miscarry ...

[ftmtb1114]

So sorry to hear that you are going through that!  :( i've been through two back to back it was extremely hard on me I took an entire year to be emotionally ready to try again and now im 17 weeks.

[caitlinnnnn]

I have had 2 miscarriages. I also used heating pads. It is a very rough time to go through. I'm sorry :(

[bebenene]

I had one last weeks am so sad .. it feels terrible .. i was 5 weeks . I was so xcitedd .  

[laurenmichelle0425]

Im sorry love. How far along were you?

[kaykay2k13]

I just recently went through my second miscarriage.  My first felt a lot harder for me both physically and mentally.  With this one I had like period cramps and heavy bleeding, and I have a son that I had after my first miscarriage and that helped me a lot with this one, I still think about them both but I try not to let it get me down too much.  I'm sorry for you having to go through this I know it cam be very hard!  But good luck and prayers!

[kramelia]

Its very hard to go through. I used a heating pad and pain meds to help with the physical pain. But emotionally it took me a little over a month to get over. Allow yourself to be emotional, its a life and its sad when it ends. Its a mourning process. Talk to anyone youre close to and give it time

[scburk92]

I went thru a miscarriage in February and am now 10 wks.. Physically i had no pain.. Just bleeding and a little pressure.. Mentally all i could do was cry for weeks, it was hard, but it'll get better, time heals..I'm so sorry that you're going thru this, hugs and prayers