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Molar Pregnancy? Miscarriage?...

So I thought I was about 12 weeks..I went to my first appointment on August 1st and turned out I had a miscarriage or a molar pregnancy. I knew something was wrong when they weren't saying anything when they were looking for the heartbeat and on the sonograms..uhh anyway at first I was hoping it was a molar pregnancy but the day on my surgery which was 4 days ago, my doctor told me that if its a molar that when I get pregnant again it can come back and that it be better if it was a miscarriage. But damn I really wish it was none and I had a healthy pregnancy. So now I'm hoping its a miscarriage, I really want a baby in the future and I know so does my boyfriend. He was so excited for this baby and it all just went down hill :( I can tell he wants a baby just by the way he looks at other kids and the way he is around them. I really hope I can have kids...ima be so depressed if I can't, I'm already sad that this pregnancy didn't turn out well. I mean girls have babies and the guy leaves them...my boyfriend wanted a baby and I couldn't even give him one. I mean this wasn't planned but we were already looking forward to it. You women who have babies are really blessed and lucky. I just wish y'all would pray and hope that this next appointment goes well..and that I can have a baby in the future...
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Yu be in my prayers don't be sad yu be fine alwas think positive
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Ok I'm sorry for your loss my blessings are for yu
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Turned out to be molar pregnancy again. It *****.
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God bless you I'll pray for you
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I had brown discharge when I was 5 weeks all the way to 9weeks. Everything is fine it was old blood. I'm 17 weeks now and baby is doing great. Wish you the best and congrats!
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I'm sorry for your loss. And how exciting, when are you due? I'm pregnant right now, my app is saying that I'm 7 weeks and 5 days. But I've been having brown spotting for almost 6 days now. Kinda worries me. I haven't seen a doctor yet cause I'm waiting on my insurance it's taking long. Uh.
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Ihavent any a molar pregnancy but idid have a m/c last yr a day after my bday ): iwas approx 14wks. It wasnt a planned pregnancy but , we didnt want a m/c either. After 3months we , got pregnant again & now im almost 34wks. Expecting a girl. God does everything for a reason . Your time will come GoodLuck!!!
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Thank you, and I'm sorry for your losses. Have you had your baby yet? Me and my boyfriend are gonna try and have one. I don't really think I'm fully ready. Because I've never taken care of a baby. Just helped out my aunt a little here and there. But I know my mom will help me out on what to do.
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I had severa miscarriages before this pregnancy.  My last miscarriage was in July and we were lucky enough to conceive exactly 4 weeks later.  Don't worry,  your time will come. Just give yourself time to heal emotionally and physically.  Good luck, girl.
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Awh that's good. And thank you haha I hope so too.
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My mother had a molar pregnancy right before she got pregnant with my little sister. They told her the same exact thing i was scared cause i didnt want her to get cancer but she was very fortunate to pop out more. Hope you pop one out soon lol☺
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Thank you, I forgot my password and finally got back on. Turned out it was a molar pregnancy. I could of got cancer or wouldn't be able to have babies. But the surgery went good. It's been two years already, everything is still going good.
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My thoughts are with you, I'm sure everything will turn out fine in the future :)
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Thoughts are with you xx positive thinking :)
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