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419158 tn?1316571604

Not a question....just an update!!!

I just got back from my u/s and.......its another BOY!
Everything looked great but I feel so bad cause when I seen that it was a boy I started to cry:( I had to make myself stop, My hubby and 2 boys were there and they were so happy. They have been saying it was a boy from the begining. I on the other hand have been having nighmares about it being a boy! God what is wronge with me???? I am so happy that he is healthy and all but, I know this will more than likely be our last and I sooooo wanted a little girl!!  Is there something wronge with me for being dissapointed??? I  love this baby and nothing will change that, I guess I knew all along it was a boy:) I guess I can thow out the girl name I had picked ou and start over from scratch:( Hmmmm good thing I have over 20 weeks left to pick out a name.
I told my hubby that I hated him and it was all his fault(it is you know) I waited a little while and told him I changed my mnd and that I love him:) But he does need to learn how to make girls, lol
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419158 tn?1316571604
Thank you ladies! I am really glad to know that im not alone:) I have heard of woman trying for one or the other and never getting what they want. Everyone on both my hubby and my side all seem to have both, boy girl boy girl or girl boy girl boy! I think my hubby needs some help!
I called my mom and some friends ealier to tell them the news and they laughed!!! They apoligized and said they cant beleive my luck:)
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Hahaha.............I am right there with ya!  I have one boy that is almost 3 and I really wanted to have a girl this time in case we don't have any more and when I found out I am having another boy it literally took me a week to shake it off.  I know all we really want is a happy, healthy baby......................but us girls would love to have a little girl too!  I am like best friends now with my mom and I want that with a daughter too so we might have one more down the road.  Good luck to you......you aren't alone on this:)

I had a girls name all picked out too that I absolutely LOVE.  I hope I can use it one day:(
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LOL. You sound just like ME!!! I sooooo badly wanted a little girl, and I knew if I didnt get it, it was my hubby fault! LOL I deep down knew it was going to be a boy as well, but I had that little hope and this pregnancy was so different then with my son it gave me a little more.....And No there is nothing wrong with you, its normal to be a little dissapointed, I know i was. But we'll love whatever comes our way!
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