She WAS...

[Scared_out_his_mind]

Ok. Well she was pregnant. WAS. This morning she told me she bleed and I got all excited. Then she told me it was a different kind of bleeding. She said it had "chunks". I want to cry. This even worse than her being pregnant cuz not only was she pregnant, she lost it. :'( Ita been 6 days. Enough time for her egg to fertilize. Now it's gone. I was thinking about keeping it. She was too. This is killing me. It's killing her. Which kills me. :'( I don't know what to do. She blame herself, but how could she have prevented it? Anyway, this isn't a question. Just thought I'd share. I did post a question a few days ago it was, Is she pregnant?! So just a little advice or something would help. If you have question go ahead and ask.

[kellibubba]

She was not pregnant....
The fact she had a chunky bleed doesnt prove anything, when your young your cycle changes from month to month...

[Scared_out_his_mind]

Yes. I keep readearchibg these things and when I find out something I freak and tell her without counting. So I don't find out the others you know.

[Scared_out_his_mind]

Yea. The age thingIis no bueno. We want kids but not til we're like 28 to 30. Also I feel really batman about how I might have planted the thought of her being pregnant. :( like inception with the dreams... :/

[Clysta]

I do agree it would be wise for you to use condoms and get her on birth control. I don't know how old you guys are, but it would also be good for you both to learn more about the female body, ovulation and her own fertile times.

[alaysha]

Well yeah when you have sex with someone you love it usually is different. So understandable. But ovulation is usually 2 weeks before your period and if her period was due at the time you had sex or even a week after she would have already passed the time she ovulates. When a women ovulates the egg only lives for 24 hours and then cannot be fertilized anymore the cycle. By my guess you missed ovulation by a long shot. Its easy for people who understand ovulation and periods and getting pregnant to understand it. You can deny it all you want but she never was pregnant.  It just sounds to me like both of you wanted a baby. Now at this age though is not a good time. Have her get on birth control and wrap your willy.

[Scared_out_his_mind]

Oops. Did not know that S plus ucks was bad. Sorry.

[Scared_out_his_mind]

I know. I feel REALLY dumb about all this but I can't help it. This reall REALLY *****. :(

[Scared_out_his_mind]

And yes. We ARE young and stupid, but it's like it's our first time having sex. With eachother it is but we aren't virgins sadly. Today, Feb. 2nd marks our five months of being together. We were ready. We talked about it and when we had sex we didn't mean to. We had been having problems and she came over to talk. After we sorted things out I kissed her and things went on and I took as a sign things were gonna be ok. It didn't even feel like sex. Sex is lust and this felt more than that. I had felt bad before with others, 2 others, bit this was different. I know I might seem stupid by say this but I just wanted to clear this up. With you guys and myself.

[Clysta]

I still really don't know if she was pregnant. A flow can vary from cycle to cycle and her being late is reason enough to cause it to be weird. I think you guys are really reading way too much into this. You seem like you desperately wanted her to be and so did she. She had 'symptoms' too early when they don't even happen, and you had sex at a time when ovulation often doesn't occur. Nothing adds up. I'm not trying to be rude, you guys just can't beat yourself up over something when you don't know.

[Scared_out_his_mind]

Tomorrow makes a week from When we had sex. I read it can take 4 days. She might have been only pregnant for a day but she most likely was. :( It doesn't matter. She was convicts age was so she'll never forget it. :'(

[Linzola1]

WOW Alaysha I didnt even catch that part... Wow im overlooked an important part.

[alaysha]

If you only had sex 5 days ago it was WAY too early for implantation or any symptoms of pregnancy. I'm sure this is just her period and the reason it could be a little off is because of stress and anxiety. I highly doubt she was ever pregnant. Both of you need to stop beating yourselves up about and reconsider having sex until you're more emotionally ready. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but its true.

[Linzola1]

I would be very supportive at this time for her. A miscarrige is a hard thing to go through. I had one at a very early point with my first pregnancy and I blamed myself forever.. A lot of early pregnancys end in miscarriage and there is nothing she did wrong to make this happen it is just a very sad. I am so sorry you guys lost the pregnancy but would take her to the hospital to make sure everything is ok otherwise!