Honestly girl, he may still love his wife no matter what and his girls. To me your not over reacting but it's not right tht he not inviting you or even bringing you along. It sounds fishy to me
I don't think its ok that he doesn't invite you to gatherings but this was his wife at one point although they're exes now that bond they have from there now grown children will never go away. You should except it as long as he let's you in on things. Unless your married or planing on it don't expect him to act like a husband because he's been there before and there is a difference. Best of luck
Hell naw...even my fiance said that sounds fishy amd sounds like someone isn't being faithful
No way your over reacting, I would be leaving if it were me, that sounds too fishy to me
I agree with the others.ur not overreacting!
Also about your boyfriend not includeing you in the family gatherings you need to talk to him about it and let him know it upsets you because you arnt being included. If he cant include you in big family things then there is something wrong. Family is suppose to be supporting and include everyone.
No you arnt over reacting. I grew up wuth devoriced parents who never talked so when i met my boyfriend and realized how much his ex wife hung around him and his family it made me very uncomfortable. but when i talked to him about it he didnt think i was over reacting. He actually went out of his way to make mefeel comfortable about thier situation. And now she isnt really hoovering over him and his family anymore. But they do stay in clise contact because of their 5 yr old that they have together.
Ur not over reacting i would be pissed of aswell they grown he can call them and ask about their day no need for his ex to explain what they did that day who knows better the mom or the actual petson and as for him not inviting u that is mean he leaves u behined while going with his ex on family events dosent he consider u family??? Sins he never seems to invit u out when theirs a even. So yeah u have a right to be mad he should take ur fellings into consideration
Not overreacting at all. If there was an issue with the girls, or an event, then his communication with his ex would be understandable. But they dont need to discuss visitation or any of the usual custody stuff at this point. As for family events, u are now his family. The girls are his family. His ex is the girls family NOT his. His complete acceptance of her and lack of family commitment to you would be enough to make me walk. Maybe its just me, but I would frame his divorce certificate and hang it prominently on the wall and explain to him that things are going to change or he can have his old life w/o me holding him back!!!
I'd be pissed too the girls are old enough that he doesn't need to fraternize with her really at all unless the situation is an emergency