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anyone else not getting sex from their hubby?

Im only 20 weeks and my hubby never wants to do it anymore!! ugh its so frustrating im pregnant not infected with diseases! he gets on my nerves so bad that i just went and bought myself a new vibrator.. ***** to say im happier this way anyway i wont have to beg! He will be mad but o well i deserve to feel good too :-p
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Well...would you want to have sex with someone who is pregnant?? Maybe he's just freaked out by his **** being so choose to a baby, mine doesn't want to either but i try to be understanding
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My husband is the same before I got pregnant he was okay sometimes we do it 3 times a week but I dont like having sex anymore its a nightmare for me bcz he just do what ever he wants n never asks me what I want.sometimes he doesnt even kiss me I run to the bathroom n cry everytime he does that.n he says to me I like girls witj big boobs.well my boobs r not small n im really pretty I always been chased by men.even now im pregnant n all the men r looking at me where ever I go.i think he doesnt find me sexy n he doesnt like me n everyday he says that he loves me but I dont beleive that ******** anymore.since I got pregnant I begged him 3 times to have sex n he was saying that he is worried about the baby.but I dont beleive it.im horny n he doesnt care.what can I do
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Yep I feel ya ,im 26 weeks and my hubby has lost interest he said its cuz hes tiered from work but I hate it :-(
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ma bf work to much now n i dnt c him so that mean no sex for me but b4 he started work all them hrs he would want it all the time n i would say not now but now i want it n he not around *****
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5924569 tn?1377745370
I'm sorry Chica. I have the opposite problem, as my hubby wants it all the time. However that's just the kind of chemistry we've always had. Could something be bothering him?
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5924569 tn?1377745370
I'm sorry Chica. I have the opposite problem, as my hubby wants it all the time. However that's just the kind of chemistry we've always had. Could something be bothering him?
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1601869 tn?1441310748
my husband was the same way ! until like the day after i had my son lol and i wish i had done your idea lol but it will take time to get it even after baby. i will let u no it will get better i also told him not to watch the whole birth lol i watched one on youtube when i started having contractions at home i was in labor for a month before my son was "evicted" lol and i was like ok i want sex and to be able to have him look at me the same way he did before i had bug and so i just told him only look when the dr says she can see hair or something lol and he did but he was also watching earlyer to lol but it will get better ! just keep that in mind !
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1679513 tn?1342481238
Hi how are you? Did you have your baby? My baby is six months old. I had a water birth at home. She is my tenth child. I thank God for her. She is such a doll.
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My boyfriend has had no interest in me whatsoever. I'm nearly 32 weeks and we have done nothing at all since I found out and its so frustrating! I just wanna go somewhere else just for a bit of attention!
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Tmi... Lol
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hell nooo haha u guys .. im supper horny too and i want everyday no joke , somedays hes like i dont want too but i will give to you and im like  uhggg thats not right lol , all he says is shut ur mouth come and f*** me hahahah , his nuts ! but he is a sex maniac too , so i make sure i get down on his pants ...
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5002615 tn?1366014009
I think my boyfriend likes me thin i posted a picture of my in a small dress a while back and he texted  me saying i looked hot i was oh so you don't think im hot right now he change the subject -.- and he calls me fat but i hit him lol
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My bf and I are apart right now. I tell him when I see him I want to pounce in him. He says it's more to life then sex. He would rather hold me and look into my eyes. I'm like save then notebook fairytale we can hold each other afterwards.
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Lol I ask my boyfriend daily and it used to be the other way around. I hate not getting what I want soiI just started doing it myself and he still gets mad
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When I'm all skinny without baby he is like yeahhh that's mine but its like he only let's me be skinny for a few months before he knocks me up again
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oh my bf loves me all the time its just worse now.  and he's always begging for pics lol I even said to him if he wants naked whale pics to look in mational geographic.  he's just a lot worse now lol some men are weird.  
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OMG KAYLA!! I say the same my husband won't touch me until my belly is big. He asked me when are you ginna get the round belly??! Ugh he's gotta fatty fetish lol
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That's crazy!! My husband is the complete opposite, he's already a horn dog but gets turned on even more when I'm pregnant..I just can't wait for this belly to be out of the way!
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Haha.. I think my hubby doesn't find me attractive with this big belly of mine..cus before I had a  belly he was always wanting it  
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4983320 tn?1378402268
Haha that's hilarious because I just bought a vibrator too for the same reason! You're not alone!
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I think my boyfriend is a secret chubby chaser he's nuts about me the bigger I get.  I have no sex drive whatsoever.  sometimes it gets on my nerves like I can't even mop the floor without it being sexy.  lol
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4981292 tn?1381256805
Lol my bf will do anything sexual but go down on me. Which I understand . I honestly think hes a sex addicted. When I say that to him he says " no im just addicted to you, I.only want sex with you"  and I don't want sex att allll !
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My hubby is the same way.. He told me like 2 months ago that he didn't feel comfortable because of the baby -_- .. IM 28+2 n I miss having it..
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5554398 tn?1373571843
lol I'm with you @jojo it is sooo hard to keep my husband happy as much as he wants it! he also said that i only need a few days to heal after baby lmao i'm like you're seriously ridiculous. he can't even phatom having to go weeks with out lol
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