You can buy almost everything in neutral colors. For my first we bought all the big items early like stroller carseat pack n play etc and clothes and stuff we wanted to actually buy stuff for a boy. Now all the big items we can use for this baby again since they are neutral :)
Crib, stroller, changing table, diapers, bath supplies. Nursing supplies or bottles.
First thing i got before knowing the sex was lil baby toys an books
I bought the diapers , wipes , bath things , undershirts & things like that before we knew
I didn't buy too much before I knew the sex of the baby, just diapers & wipes. after I had my baby shower is when I bought everything I didn't get… like baby bottles, burp cloths, etc. I didn't have to buy much clothes cause
*I got more then enough, so if your having a baby shower it helps out alot
Diapers diapers diapers. I cannot stress this enough. And don't worry too much about size cause you can take them to Walmart and just say "I got these at a baby shower and my baby outgrew them before he/she got to use them" as long as they carry the brand and it's unopened, they'll exchange for the next size.