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have i lost my baby

my last period was dec 19th 2009 i took a pregnancy test on thur 21st jan cause i was late an it came up positive so i went to doctor and he said im around 4 weeks pregnant so i told him i was getting cramps in my lower stomack so he sent me to the maternity they done bloods an told me i was only 2 weeks pregnant how is this possible its not matchin my ovulation dates??? help im so worried
p.s my periods come on the 19th every month
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no no doctor even mentioned a d&c. it prob lasted the same as a period. 3-4 days. but was very heavy very dark and quite painful cramps. my next period after it was heavy again. then back to normal
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And how long after ur miscarriage did ur bleedin stop and did you need a d&c?
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sorry to hear you loss. i misscarried 6months ago.. the saturday i had a gush of bright red blood but stopped fairly quickly. doctore couldnt tell what was happening. thought a possible eptopic. was in th waiting room to have the ultra sound 5days later and really bad cramps strated happening. the most extreme cramps so painfull. went to toilet really dark red brown discharge coming out. was taken to the hospital but sent home had to go back for blood test week later to check te hormone level but was told probly a miss carry. bleeding was thicker than normal for me and quite dark and clotty. and really bad cramping. thankfully it passsed within four days and the blood test week later confirmed the levels were gone... its a tough time to go through so many questions u ask yourself... but be open with you partner with it. everything happens for a reson... good luck xx
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I think it passed already cause i had a big clot like a lump of soft tissue thing i was thinkin t was the sac or somethin and after it passed the pain went a bit but now its bk an its very sore an my stomack is very swolen
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1035252 tn?1427227833
It's perfectly fine to go natural...I had a natural miscarriage in 2007 except for they gave me something called cytoteq which opened my cervix and caused contractions. It was fairly painful, but all the material passed on its own without a D&C faster than it would have without the medication. If you don't feel comfortable doing this naturally, you can request a D&C or ask for medication to help the process speed up...

My heart aches for you, I'm sorry you're going through this :(
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Is having a natural miscarriage Ok im still bleedin and the hospital tell me go home its natural why no d and c
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796506 tn?1370188305
Wow. I am so sorry that you had to go through this.
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I kno i have lost my baby but will it be Ok it all going naturally no d and c none was offered no exam done and no scan how do they kno its all gone what if i get an infection? They done more bloods 2day 2make sure my levels are well gone down
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Thanx very much an i agree sights like this are very helpful lets hope we go on 2have baby's in the future an they are healthy
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1205897 tn?1304815216
I had a missed miscarraige at 10 weeks. I didn't want to have the d&c for numerous reasons, so I miscarried naturally, and that was quite painful... My way of coping was talking to as many people as I could about what happened, I wish I would have joined a site like this then, the support of others that have gone through the same thing as you is  so helpful! Just a thought, I would ask the dr to do some genetic testing if you are going to have the d&c. To see if there an underlying issues. I know they usually don't test till the third mc, but I would ask anyway. Good luck:)    
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Hello and thanx very much 4every 1that wished me luck or anythin over this i must say this site has helped lots just have to wait now 2be told when i get my d & c got my last blood results an they'v gone down so its happenin bit by bit.. Thanx guys wishin ye all luck in the future
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This is my 2nd loss
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1205897 tn?1304815216
So sorry for your loss. I  too had a miscarriage, last January... it is an extremely hard thing to go through... Wishing you all the best!
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1024452 tn?1323708817
I'm so sorry for your loss.  Try to stay strong!
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796506 tn?1370188305
I am sorry for your loss. I hope that you are doing better
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Bleedin heavy this time think its time 2accept this pregnancy is over
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Just in hospital now no bleedin thank god no pains waitin 2see the doc an see what's happenin cud this slight bleedin an pain be frm stress and all the scans im gettin its hard 2know just prayin that the baby is Ok my boobs r still sore an on my last miscarriage the pain in my breasts left straight away so im hopin and think baby is Ok... 5weeks pregnant sac still measures 7mm
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Just had slight bleedin an pains its not lookin so gud im so afraid
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I am currently going through the same thing. I am very confused and worried. Keep posting your results its nice to know that there is someone else out there going through this hard stuff
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Nxt scan on the 16th an bloods 2be takin every 2days please god keep letting me have good news
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505857 tn?1329681517
your levels are increasing, i think the doc's might be scaring you more than they need to.  I hope everything works out okay for you!!
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Got more bloods done 2015 still not risin gud enough so stressed frm all this its not ectopic it has been ruled out ive just been 4another scan and the sac is measurin at 7mm there not happy wit that cause it was d same size as that in the last scan what iS goin on how can no1 give me a proper answer am i carryin a baby an havin a proper pregnancy stupid doctors dont kno were all puzzled
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Got more blood results 2day they were 1364 now didn't double so they want me 4another scan 2moro i would love to relax an enjoy this pregnancy but the doctor's keep freaking me out im fine when im not around them
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283175 tn?1295537265
Hun your results are fine,relax and enjoy your pregnancy.
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