Thank you all for your responses. :-) I was hoping to be able to announce it at Christmas, but it looks like we won't know by then.
Nobody ovulates on the same day in each cycle.It is possible to ovulate later than your normal ovulation days .Only OPK or ultrasound can give you the window when you are most fertile.You cant rely on Ovulation calculators .Just continue having intercourse regularily sothat u dont miss ovulation.
Yes, its possible. Not everyone has the "typical" signs of ovulation but ovulate none-the-less. Also, its possible you havent ovulated yet but sperm can survive in the uterus for about 4 days.
Ovulation discharge is often not white. It is similar to egg whites, and should be very stretchy. This is why fertile mucous is called EWCM.
Ovulation predictor calculators are only a guess and nothing more. They should not be taken as being 100% correct. The 14th day of your cycle isn't the magical time of ovulation. Many women will ovulate on different days. For example, some women with a 28 day cycle ovulate on CD 16, others ovulate on CD 13.
As for if you're pregnant, it's far too early to tell. You need to wait and see if you get your cycle and take a pregnancy test if you do not.