Aa
im not even shocked. serious vent!
I havent posted on here or been on here in a while but i desperately need to vent. So today was the day of my baby shower, which 1. I didnt want & 2.i made it clear to everyone that i didnt want it. Anyways the drama started the day before my baby shower with my sister inlaw not wanting to see my brother there because he has a bew girlfriend,my mom wanted my other brothers girlfriend there but i dont get along with her because she started some rumor about my fiance a while back,me and my fiance got into a fight the night before,& i didnt get to prepare or buy a dress or anything before the day of the shower because of people that promised me a ride and didnt take me. Anyways so moving on to the actual baby shower day (which was today saturday) . I was running 2 hours late becausr i had to shop for my dress and shoes and didnt even get to do my hair,i didnt get to eat because i had so much to do, so fast forward i finally arrive to the shower only to find out that my "best friend" of 8 years didnt even show up or let alone even tell me she wasnt or send a gift,meanwhile i just went to her babys birthday party not having the money or car and still being able to make it for her,and on top of that she told me she was coming and lied dead iny face, i also saw that one of my relatives didnt come because she had "work" but then i see pics of her on instagram at a bar drinking it up. Then we start playing games and everything and brothers (whichr are trouble) started bringing stuff to the party and talking about stuff that wasnt supose to be there, then my sister inlaw and step dad wouldnt stop talking about ciggaretts like if it was the end of the world,then my brothers take my fiance somewhere and disapear for an 1 and a half without telling anyone, then they get back my sister inlaw and brother start a big asss fight in the middle of the apartment complex screaming and fighting with there kids crying and screamingng,and then my mom and sister nlaw got into it ff
@simms yea it shows you whos really there gor you and whos not, if it wasnt gor my mom,my grandma,my uncle,& my mother inlaw(whome vive never sincerely got along with) yet she came thtough for me yesterday completely,it it wasnt for them though i wouldve never even enjoyed 2 seconds of my babyshower smh.
Girl I know your frustration and pain bith of my sisters were supposed to throw my baby shower but one said she was going out of town and didn't but I rescheduled and the other said she never said she was doing it so I had to end up doing it myself but thank God my brothers came through for me or I wouldn't have had one mine was yesterday also and neither one of my sisters showed up smh
@tay9662 yea ive been through this too many yimes, cops always being called,people always fighting ,pulling knives out on eachother,getting too drunk etc etc, ive lived through this all of my life with my family, but where i drew the line was yesterday because im not going to let people disrepect a day for my son and them think its ok. Im good with them.
lmao.. this seems like a typical family reunion for me that ***** ****** up ain't it ?? and girl at least your dad and your grampa didn't start a fist fight in the middle of olive garden -_- never am I having my baby shower in a restaurant again EVER!! and I know how you feel cause you cant say anything to my family cause of course no one is wrong.. more power to you for changing you number :) I took a 3 week vacation at my aunts 7 hours away too cool down but I guess the only thing you can do for some people is take em out of your life. and my 2 best friends didn't show up for mine either(but I cant really blame them they don't like a lot of my family and it was pretty embarrassing for them 2 to fight in the restaurant).
, im just not going to communicate with them anymore ,they need to kniw how serious i am because this stuff happens all the time and im not having my son around it. And as for friends,being that i didnt expect that from them AT ALL ,it really hurt me & im not okay with what they did, so i wont be talking to thrm anymore. Thanks girls!
Oh my, that is ridiculous. Your family should be ashamed of there actions. I feel for you, especially since you had todeal with this when you didn't even want a shower. Take a deep breath and try to relax. I am so sorry this *****.
It sounds like you need to find a good friends and go out on a girl day. Or just have a warm bath to relax yourself. And him getting drunk there is worse, in my opinion. You need more supportive people then that. I'm sorry that your day was ruined. When he sobers up I would tell him how everything that happened today made you feel. I hope things get better for you. They should have all been more supportive of you and your baby since that's what those 4 hours were supposed to be for. I'd say if they keep acting like that to just avoid the drama. It's deff not good for you or baby and if it means you have to give them some space to make sure you are feeling good about yourself then that might be what you have to do. Your family/friends/fiance/and anyone else should understand that.
@MKtistine he didnt go out and get drunk ,he was getting drunk at the baby shower and then my troublesome brothers took his drunk asss somewhere, so i had absolutely no support or anyone to vent to,cus the only one that i fo vent to is him and he was too busy throwing up and saying sorry ,and crying the whole time. Smh
@MKristine tell me about it, i wish i could but im so hurt that i just changed my number & keep crying cus of all of the negativity that my family always brings.
You need to let them know how much stress that pus on you and your baby. That's not good at all. They should understand. And your fiance shouldn't be going out getting drunk like that when something important is going on like that.
That is waaaaaaaay too much un-needed stress on you. Try relaxing and calming down a little.
..inside of the apartment, then my mom and isister inlaw and step dad start screaming at eachother,and finally when i reaslized my fiance was back he was sitting in the middle of the side walk by himself at night all drunk and nobody even knew,then i get back in the house to take care of him in the bathroom for about an hour, and then at the end of the night we had to take a ride home an hour away because he was just too drunk to stay in someone elses house,and i just spent the rest of the night crying and not talking to anyone,and taking carr of my fiancé . Its just so crazy how selfish my family is and how fuckingg embarrassing and it is that they cant hold **** together for evrn just 4 fuckingg hours. And my so called ftiends not showing up showed me how i have no ftiends to count on. I just had the worst day ever. Would never do it again.
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