ive totally lost my sex drive

[joshuawatkin]

i am starting to feel so sorry for my partner im 24wks today and he has a very high sex drive,he is nagging me all the time to have sex but i just dont want to,i sometimes let him have is own way but i still dont enjoy it i dont want to feel like this but what can i do?

[lostinnc123]

My hubby is not being as understanding as I would like him to be. He pushes me for it every day but I dont want anything to do with having sex. It hurts me physically and I dont know how to explain it to him so he will understand. Then he actually gets mad after a few days of not having sex, well mad isnt exactly the right word, maybe extremely frustrated is the way to put it. Im at a total loss of what to do.

[hb1stbaby]

Oh Ladies...so happy I saw this today. I'm 20 weeks and haven't had any sex drive since the 8th week. I feel just awful for mu hubby, but he's the most understanding man. He jokes around with the typical "don't pregnant women WANT to have sex???", but he's not pushy. I feel horrible though...but like you ladies, OMG, I just have NO desire...:(

[joshuawatkin]

does your hubby understand or does he keep asking you for sex ? do you make up excuses so you dont have to do it ?

[joshuawatkin]

thank god it isnt just me im sure he just thinks i dont love him any more i dont think they realise how much we go through

[alaysha]

I lost my sex drive in the beginning of my pregnancy. She's now 2 1/2 months old and I STILL don't feel like having sex. There isn't really anything you can do. From what I hear its natural to either want more sex during pregnancy or to suddenly not want it at all. I'm still waiting for it to come back though... not sure when it will.

[Leanna26]

Yep me too. Sometimes I feel horrible, but I am just so exhausted more than anything and end up falling a sleep. I don't think any pregnancy I have had so far has made me nearly as exhausted as this one has.

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

AMEN TO THAT!...I've lost mine since about 12 weeks or maybe earlier.....it's like my tummy gets in the way or I'm just to tired.  I don't know what to do to make it better I haven't figured it out yet.

[Mea426]

I totally understand where you are coming from. I was like that after I had my first child. It was bad. I too would let him have his way but I so was not into it at all.

There isn't really anything you can do about it....at least I didn't do anything. After a while it comes back but for the first few months I had it it was terrible!

Sorry I couldn't be of any help to you! :(