miscarriage

[hitz]

we tried our first ivf it got postive result iwas pregnant for 9 weeks  we went for first ultra sound on 7 th week . they could hear the babies heart beat after 2 weeks we went for another they couldn't hear anything so the babies are still birth. so dr asked us to d/c
he thinks that might be the problem of chromosomal  abnormalties we were very depressed we dont know what to do will i get pregnant again we already did 6 iui's so we are depressed.

[heathergail]

i am so sorry i just had a d and c today i went last week slow heart beat this weel tues no heart beat so my doc did it in office this afternoon i  cried all day and now i am numb it sucks so bad but i did nt want to keep living it so we got it over with so i can begin to heal  i am so sorry just remember god has a bigger pan for you pray i will pray for you to have piece it is nothing you did so remember this to shall pass BUT it sucks so bad it  is strange how you love something before you see them i was 9 weeks today get a second opinion if you dont have a doc you trust  good luck you willl be okay i wish i could takemy own advice. my you be blessed again soon

[KellyA74]

I feel for you.  I had my first ultrasound today as well and found that twins had no heartbeat and we're trying to decide what to do.  I think we're still in denial, but just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you.