my heart is broken

[cubacraft123]

OK so I'm 35 weeks 3 days pregnant I have to other small children and my man tells me he don't love me anymore that he has someone else n he doesn't want this baby. But he wants to stay living in the same house to support. Me my heart is shatters we've been together for 9 years. What should. I do

[cubacraft123]

Thank you for your support its just its his house I have no job he's barly home now he's a truck driver.  I'm going to wait till he gets back to make final decision.  But thank u lots.

[mommyoftrez]

hun just worry about u the baby and your older kids.... kick him.out your strong.... i left my first n second childrens dad..... and found love again well atleast i think ... but do it for you n your kids show then the streght mommy has n the love u have for them stringer than any other type of love.... n for him kick him out make him reponsible of his actions n if he dosent want to step up.... you put child support on him n smile to the world a new love is about to come in your life....

[young20]

I've been w my Bf for 2 1/2 years which is no where near 9 years nd we're due in September nd were no longer together. Its tears at my heart but I needed to realize Wut was really important. Me my baby nd our happiness. It still hurts but will get better. It will get better even after 9 years. But a little advice seperate urself. Dnt let him stay in ur house.

[emilyalyssa]

I'm dealing with the same problem Hun. It's tough, but I kicked him out and told him that if he didn't love me he didn't need to stay with me. I wouldn't put up with bull like that. It's been 2 months since it happened with me and I cry at night, but if he calls I'm sure to hold my tears and fake that I'm alright. He's not worth your time and 9 years is a long time to be with someone.

[vivi2013]

Omg so sorry hun u must be devastaded !! Just dont know how he can do that to u now .. Its sad !! Do u still wanna be with him ?? If u do just ignore him for a while , let him think u wont miss him , go out with friends , have fun and laugh even thou u may be crushed inside but let him think that he made u a favor u know !! Maybe he will came back around , maybe he will be confused to why u r having such a nice time without him and may wanna came back !! Man are the opposite if u let him see u are suffering him will just carry on , but if u give him ur happy side he will think twice on how and who is bringing u this happiness !! Good luck to u !

[ShellyLette]

Well, definitely take his support. But if he found a new woman then id kick his butt out, why stay there with you when the loves gone? He may not want the baby but if he's the father then he has to support that baby he helped made them after all

[cubacraft123]

Thanks it just super hard cause I've been loyal to him

[GordonBaby]

And too late with the baby!! He doesnt have a choice now does he?! I say he goes and still supports you and the kids. Let the other women deal with his s h i t

[nylrahcko]

My heart also breaks for you. I have nothing else to say but I will put you on my prayers hoping that you will have a healthy pregnancy and and you'll find your answers. I am sorry that you have to go through this. If you want someone to talk to I'm here. I may not be a good adviser but enough to be your friend.  :)

[GordonBaby]

Oh hunny.....Im sorry, thats horrible. What a jerk!!!! Keep your head up. Im sure you will figure something out.