not a parenting question bt i need advice.

[oxmbeav]

my daughter is almost 3 and she has always stayed up real late til like 2a.m and my bf who is not her father bt the father of my unborn baby always says im a bad parent because of it, idk why its a problem. shes three and not in daycare or school and im not in school now until after i have my baby plus he works on the oil rig so whens hes home on his days off its not like he goes to bed early or wakes up early.. idk i dnt mind her staying up late cause i dnt want to be up alone when hes not here cause i stay up late being uncomfortable all the time and i cant sleep anyways.. bt anyways now he wants me to move out, real dumb guy lol im so angry and hurt and full of adrenaline, i want to punch him in his stupid face

[mommiKat]

My hubby also worked on the oil rig with my second pregnancy so I def know about being alone. But I would still start setting a bed routine now & potty training if not already done.  Anything you can do before the baby gets here. Plus, it will make living together much easier.  Sometimes you have to compromise how you raise your kids when you're in a relationship with someone who is not the father. You don't want parenting differences to clash & bring arguments.  Have a sit down & both talk about how each others parenting style & compromise. Find a happy medium.  Hope this helps you

[mommiKat]

Your not a bad mom, my almost 3 year old was allowed to sleep whenever when it was just her. But once the baby came,  it was necessary to give them both a routine at night,  for my peace! Lol so I would suggest starting a bed routine now before baby comes. I do baths @ 8 30, & Bed Time by 9 30. She wakes up around 8am so it gives me & hubby time to unwind alone & you'll thank yourself for it in the long run.  Trust me

[likklehev]

Try calming things before bed both have a warm bath and dit and watch a film before bed sit her in her bedroom and read her a story give her a drink of warm milk make the house a calming environment before bed you will find it makes a difference

[oxmbeav]

well we do wake up early we jst seem to not be able to sleep, my mom said when i was a baby i was the same way.

[likklehev]

It is better for children to get them into a routine 2am is really late for a young child its better to start routine now before they start school otherwise you'll have a big fight on your hands you also may find it will  help you sleep better by having a routine x