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Ladies are any of you from California.  are u familiar with Watts near the projects.  i need the number for the police and children services.  am tryin to help  this poor little girl.  cause those mother fuckers she got for family to protect her and hurtin her.  am not goin to let her suffer anymore. oh hell know, please anyone get me some number please
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Just call 911

And please try to refrain from such language, the forum rules I do believe ask for no foul language.
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am sorry for the language it's just am upset about the situation with this child.  she was abused by her father and brother and needs help
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I totally understand, I know you can call 911 and stay anonymous through the process, if its that bad. Or you can get ahold of DHS and file a report with child services, im not sure how it works in cali but any reports of child abuse must go straight to 911 in my state.

I hope everything gets worked out.
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she doesnt want me report it she is afraid of losing her family.  I have her info and i got the names it's her call the abuse happened like 4 yrs ago justice can still be served wat eva she wants me to do am in for it.  i did some research and i have gotten some helpful numbers
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How old is she?

My 14 yr. old step sister was abused by her brother for 10 yrs. finally she told someone 2 yrs. ago and even tho she didn't want to be taken from her home was.

She now lives with my mom and stepdad (he passed a month ago after getting custody of her). Her grades are up and she has new friends.

Do what's best for her, because even if it happened in the past she is going to need lots of counselling to get thru it. Otherwise she'll end up promiscuous(sp?) or hating men. That's what happens to so many of these girls. (my stepsis has gone thru like 8 boyfriends so far, swears she's not having sex, and will NOT go to counselling)
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she is 15 am workin wid her hopefully she changes her mind, i made some phone calls and got feedback.  i have plenty numbers all she has to do is say michelle am ready.she is already sexually active and might be pregnant.  i cant leave her now am afraid  she will lose control am  tryin to find counsellin near ur house so she can attend she is minor that's the sacry part, i have to do thing by the law somewat
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she is under age. Don't be worried about leaving her, you can be there for her all the time, but you need to report this to someone of authority! it's important, esp. if she may be pregnant.

the problem with that is, because of what she's gone thru, she may have warped views on things and think some of those things are ok for her child to go thru. You may be worried about reporting it, or worried she'll hate you. But if that's what it takes for her to get the help she needs then just do it, because you yourself will never be able to help her the way she needs professionally. She's going to need to be examined at a doctors office as well as a mental evaluation done.

My stepsis refused the dr's examination because the only forensic dr. they had in Bakersfield was a male. She is DETERMINED to not let a guy touch her down there again and consideres herself a virgin. (because what happened wasn't consentual)

I'm telling you now, you need to call DPSS or whatever it's called.
I'm located in Hemet, ca. so I'm not to sure where Watts is.

What I'm suggesting to you is you make an appointment with your local child protection office and explain that it's a serious problem, don't say what(they'll insist on coming out right then). just that it involves a minor and you need a counsellor to be there at the appointment to evaluate the situation. Then get this girl to go with you (say it's lunch or something). and MAKE her go to the appointment, that way you'r there and can explain yourself that your doing this because you care and don't want to see her hurting anymore.  She may say she hates you or other hurtful things, but she will come to realize that you really care for her and want her to be safe. You may even get to be approved as a temp. guardian for her. They're gonna want her out of that situation ASAP.
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i left u a private message i cant speak about the situation here anymore, i dont know if she is viewin the forum.  i gave her my word about keepin it betwn us and the next step we will take
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