who is the father?

[grace0119]

I had my period on February 8 2012, it lasted 4 days then on the 5th day I slept with my ex but he pulled out. Then my husband called the next day and said he wanted us back together and I slept with him the next day twice a day for 3 weeks and he didn't pull out. I have had two ultrasounds one at 8 weeks and one at 12weeks they both say I conceived around the 21st. What are my chances of being pregnant by my ex? .

[khawkins]

It's okay Grace, you don't need to explain.... it is your life therefore it is your decision!

Good Lusk to you!

[grace0119]

Babyangelina: For one I didn't cheat on my husband we were going through a divorce because he had an affair on me, he called.me the day after I slept with my ex  and.obviously if I think the baby isn't his when its born I will of course tell him.

[rachyrou]

I'd do a.DNA after baby is born hun xx

[babyangelina]

Shouldnt u tell your husband the truth that u cheated on him with your ex whats going to happen when your baby comes and doesnt look like him then what its the right thing to do its not fair for your baby and your husband

[grace0119]

Thanx everyone so much. I have been losing sleep over this.

[mommalawson]

totally your husband I wouldnt worry about it hun i'm sure your not the first woman that this is happened to

[mom2b819]

Its sounds like its ur husband's

[grace0119]

No my husband does not know. He had an affair on me last year and we split up for several months. Things are good now and I don't want to say anything unless I have too

[khawkins]

If you had sex with your ex on CD5, I am going to say that it is your husbands.  Ovulation occurs at that halfway mark of your cycle, and sperm will only live in the vagina for 2-3 days.  

good luck!

[mommykresha19]

Does your husband know about your ex? & i would say most likely it's your husbands but i would get a dna test after baby is born.