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will I hav my sex life back

Crazy to think about I know. My fiancé is my middle school sweetheart and we connected again about a year and a half ago... 9 of those months ive been pregnant.  Im not worried about anything except for small things like wanting him to be attracted physically to me after baby is born. Its silly but he deserves to have a good lookin lady lol especially after this sweat pants deal he has had to look at. Is it weird we haven't been active during pregnancy and dose it take long to get the "flame" back !!??
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I'm now married to my middle school sweetheart, we were together for 4 months when I got pregnant, we had dated in middle school innocently,  and when we broke up we continued to stay really good friends we even went to different high schools and still managed to stay connected well after we were done with high school had cars and all that God stuff we were hanging out a lot more finally ending up dating at 19 weer had our daughter and I feel as if we never lost it, but it did die down while I wad pregnant but that wad because of me and not feeling well so or sex life changed drastically and still will never be the same because having a child also changed that but we've never lost the love we try and spice it up as often as possible but very rarely does that Happen. You guys just can't lose sight because of the lack of sex (:
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He should be more attracted to you!! You are the mother of his child and you're doing an amazing thing!! Honestly I believe when a father sees his child come into the world, there is no other feeling. He is gonna think you're incredible.  I feel the same way about appearance after baby, but give yourself time to heal and recover and you will get back to your old self in no time!
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