Thanks for the kind words.... I dont mind the other person present....Its my first and I think having someone there to help me would be peaceful.
i never used one but i have heard great things by others that have. i suppose its a comfort thing, if you are ok with another person in the delivery room, if you really want a natural birth, how determined you are to remain comfortable with the help of natural techniques. i say why not. by the way, i dont think id call you a larger woman :)