who is the father

[leshalj1913]

April 18 and April 27 i was with my ex. On April 30 and May 2 -3 slept with another guy.On May 14 I find out I was pregnant.My first US was 6/16 GA-9w1d next one was 8/25 GA=19w2d my EDD was Jan 19.I saw a Maternal fetal speciality on 9/2 GA 20w2d EDD was Jan 18. Every month after until 37 weeks I had a US did by a speciality. my EDD was Jan 18. If I was a week off on my lmp would the US show it. Could it give me the right conceived or ovulation date? If my LMP came on at 4/20 not at 4/13,would my ex be the father or the other guy. I hope the LMP of 4/13 is right thats what I remember. Just afriad the other  guy is the father.My ex will be hurt. My son was born 1/12 Is  it possible to find out a postive test i'm pregnant two weeks after being with the other guy on April 30?  Did the US give the right due date?PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[KarenDiane]

I think you need to get a DNA test.

[Victoria01]

When the dates of the sexual encounters are within 2 weeks of each other, a DNA test is needed to determine paternity.

[waitn838]

agreed...anything is possible...only DNA will give you the true answer

[melimeli]

As I was picking up a rx I was surprised to see that they sell the dna kits right next to the baby thermometers and at home drug tests hahaha...  ahhhh todays society we should all be proud...  :)

[waitn838]

OTC dna kits....wow

[melimeli]

and this was at wallgreens

[prevatt77]

What State are you in?  I have never seen them here in MD.

[melimeli]

Oregon... I know I was shocked.  I went to walgreens and right next to the window by the baby thermometers was the DNA collection kit (you then send the specimen into some clinic or something) It even said something like to test mom, baby and the presumed father haha and next to that was the at home drug test for pot, meth and cocaine.. I even mentioned to the pharmacist.  So you come to pick up your baby thermometer and you get a glance into the future of teenage pregnancy (maury) and drug testing hahahaha.... And I thought to myself wow, our society has come so far.. not!

[SoCalTricia]

I've seen those tests here in CA, too. I was a little surprised. Not sure how accurate they are.

As for the original poster - as the others said, there is no way to know for sure without a paternity test. Anything is possible, and the dates are fairly close. Get a DNA test.

[Courtcoop]

I have seen those while looking for gender predictor test...i HAD to read the box I  was laughing so hard...you have to send into a lab and pay for the lab work.

[melimeli]

I can imagine the mom trying to find out if dh is the father without letting him know she cheated like sticking the q tip into his mouth while he is sleeping hhaha.. oh man, I sure am glad I have common sense...  I mean I have never cheated BUT I cannot imagine cheating and not using protection... maybe these people need to pick up an aids test at the same time... hmmmm I wonder if wallgreens carries those!  LMAO

[melimeli]

OH BTW COURTCOUP I am glad no one saw you read the box.. thats how rumors get started!!! hahaha

[adgal]

Yep DNA test is the only way to know for certain.   And over the counter DNA testing...seriously??  Wow.

[Kricket212]

You sure are blunt!!!

leshalj-  I would def have a talk with DH & explain. Also, you must do DNA!!

Best Wishes to you!!

[melimeli]

Bunt but honest.. anyway the OP said one was her ex the other was just a guy so even if she told both of them he is already her ex so I guess it wont matter.. she should just be honest do a test and find out

[yummymom]

First guy is the daddy but it is pretty close tho