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297016 tn?1192119654

is anyone else in my situation?

hi, 22 weeks pregnant and i fell in May but i was silly because i was on antibiotics with my pill and didnt use any other form of contraception. i slept with2 ppl and now i don't reli have a clue who the dad is. Im having a little girl, how do i get either of them2 care, im on my own with this?any advice?i'll be on my own 4 the birth neither of them came 2 my scans. i need them2care a little bit!how do i do that?help!! x
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During my first pregnancy I was also alone. My mother was wonderful. If you have a good relationship with your Mom lean on her. If not, it may be a good time to connect with her. Be strong for your unborn child. You don't want someone in her life that doesn't want to be there 100%. You can do it like many other women have. I am now pg with my second and have met a wonderful man. He accepts my first born as his own. There are good ones out there so just be patient!
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I am in a similar situation.  Back in June I started dated dating someone and the very first time we slept together I got preg.  At first he was not happy aboput it but as time progressed he became really excited.  We started to plan a life together, were looking at houses and everything was great.  I ended up miscarrying in July and shortly after that the relationship fell apart.  Well we reconnected and in Sept I got preg. again.  He is was also seeing someone else while we were together this time.  Well prior to me finding out I was preg.  I let his g/f know that we were together and hge blew a fit.  Well he said he never wants to talk to me again... blah, blah.  So I find out that I am preg.  he says he wants nothing to do w/ me or the baby.  I am disappointed in him as I thought he wsa someone he is not.  I am sad because the first time around he was so excited and very supportive and the life we were building was the life I wanted.  Sooo---  I too, am going at this alone.  I feel that a baby is a blessing anyway it comes and it will behis loss/regret one day.  
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