10 weeks pregnant and scared HELP!!!!

[christina_nate]

Hi, I am 10 weeks pregnant today, but am very worried as I have lost ALL pregnancy symptoms. I was pregant this May just gone but I had missed miscarraige at 7weeks 4days. I am happy as i passed that mark now and have reached this stage. I had a scan at 8weeks 4days with this pregnancy they said everything seemed fine and there was a heart beat:) they also done a spectrum and took swobs and there was some brownish discharge they couldn't say what it was which is scary. I am now worried i'm having  miscarrige as I had bleeding around 4 weeks but none since and have now lost all symptoms, I have slight cramps and lower back pain..I would be so gratefull if any1 is in a similar situation or has any advice...

[Ashelen]

also if it helps you any I spotted at 7wks with light cramping with this pregnancy (now almost 9wks), and I've miscarried before, so I thought it was all over...but they saw the heartbeat and the blood and cramping was apparently from a burst cyst I never knew I had. I'm so glad I went to get checked out though it put my mind at ease. I miscarried before my pregnancy with my daughter, but with her I was perfectly healthy the whole 9 but scared for a long time too so it's definitely normal to be this scared but you can totally have a healthy pregnancy after a miscarriage :D

[wanttobeamumagain]

Hi there, i know how scary it is have any sort of bleeding in early pregnancy. I too have lost babys. I lost all symptoms at about 7/8 weeks and it scared the hell out of me but they came back a while later in double dose!! When i was early pregnant i hade brown spotting and the dr told me it was old blood. then i bled really bad at 15 weeks, i mean it poured out, but i was just fine and my little man i 12 weeks monday. I think it common to lose symptoms early on so dont worry too much about that. Good luck and i wish you the best.

[hudsy]

First, just relax and think possitively! So many women go their entire pregnancy without any real symptoms! I have a friend who didn't know she was pregnant until five months because she would still bleed now and then and had no symptom- now her baby is 2 years old, healthy and adorable. The point is everyone is different, and lack of symptoms don't necessarily mean it's bad. I too miscarried (just last week I was 11 weeks along :'-( ) but my baby had no heartbeat even when we had checked the week before and they thought was due to my uterus being tilted but I guess not. You're lucky you heard the heartbeat that's HUGE and a very good sign! Light bleeding around four weeks is common, but if you start spotting this week I would definitely go in right away for another ultrasound to ease your mind. Take it one day at a time, I'll be praying you! We're going to TTC as soon as possible and I know when I get pregnant I'm going to be freaking out and worried about every little thing like you are. Once you've lost a baby the next pregnancy is always scary I'm sure. Stay possitive!! Take it one day at a time, whenever you get super anxious call and make a US appt. that's the best way for reassurance!! You're in my thoughts!

[Ashelen]

It's fairly normal for pregnancy symptoms to come and go, so I wouldn't worry about that by itself. If you're having cramps and you're this scared, go to the ER sweetie. There's nothing we can really tell you even if we've been in similar situations the only way to know for sure is to go get checked out.

It doesn't sound like anything's wrong but there's just no way to know and there's no reason for you to be so scared if there's no reason. I recommend going to the ER and telling them you're cramping and they'll do a blood test, make sure they do an ultrasound, and try not to worry.

It's OK to be scared but there may be nothing wrong and you should go get looked at to put your mind at ease. <3 try to stay calm everything may be just fine and you'll have been scared for nothing but the only way to know is to go get checked out.