Wow what a jerk. I would definitely tell her. If it was me I would want to know! And make sure you get his a$$ for child support!!
Do not give the baby his last name. My daughter has my last name because in my situation I know it was the right thing to do.
Tell her! And definately don't give the baby his last name, it seems like he's not going to be involved at all so why would you
Surprise him with Child support documents. When it comes to it, first comes first served. If the other woman leaves him and files before you, than you simply get the crumbs that fall from the Table. That's how an older woman explained it to me, and I'm so glad she did. My 2nd child's father had 2 other babies a few months after mine. And they all filed for Child support immediately. Thankfully my case was already clocked. Sorry if this isn't the answer you were hoping for. But, my best suggestion is to plan your next steps for supporting your baby.
I would def not give the baby his last name. It's not up to him anyway, it's up to you. I would tell this other girl about the dating site and that you are pregnant. Then I would just forget about the two of them and focus on you and your baby and don't even worry about him unless he starts to bother you. It sounds good that you had already broken up with before you got pregnant so you are mentally ready to move on from him! Good luck :)
Wow what a dirty mthfckr he gets u preggers at the same time tells u to get an abortion then says he wants the baby to have his last name smh what is up with these guys these days smh i would def. tell her she should kno the situation u are all in just in case he plans on being in the babies life, if u want him there that is , time for a reality check. He really should have told her u were preggers so she knows what to expect when ur babies arrive n im tryna make sure ur saying she is two weeks ahead of u or currently she is 7wks
Tell her! Lol. Commitment issues. First of all you don't need that so don't you dare feel in the position of turning back. Keep that stuff as proof though. Seriously. Texts. Emails. Screenshots. They'll serve you good in the long run when it comes to court for abondnment.