I would choose your fiance, your mom doesn't exactly have the right to take that position if daddy is in the picture. And just pack everything you would if you delivered naturally, i packed a bag, and went to the hospital not knowing i was gunna end up with a c section, and I'm having another one this time too
Hunny everything will be okay! I'm a ftm but not due till September. My doctor thinks I have pre-eclampsia which will most likely require a premature birth done by c section. It sounds really scary but once your baby comes out and you get to see his or her little face all the nervousness and fear of it will instantly go away! And if I have a c section I want my finace to be in the room with me because it is his child as well.