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Gender dissapointment??

So my whole pregnancy my hubby has said he at least wants a boy ( never really planned on kids especially this early) well we are having a girl, when I told him he asked if I was kidding and said oh great super sarcastic and didn't really talk to me the rest of the night. I know most guys want a boy and yada yada but his reaction really hurt honestly and its really stressing me out :/ he hasn't been all that supportive to begin with I'm just worried when our baby gets here it will make matters worse. I didn't really care if we had a boy or girl just hoping for a healthy baby and easy dilivery
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7552771 tn?1469929649
My sister just had her 5th baby but her first from a different guy and her first girl. Her bf didn't touch, have with, or even kiss her pretty much her whole pregnancy and at one point denied the baby as his. But as soon as that little girl came out its his life he loves that baby more than anything he's always smiling now. Just be patient your man is being a d i c k. And iI'd be pissed too because my bf wanted a girl so bad but we got a boy and hes still happy but if he wasn't he'd be on the couch Haha.
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I hope he does get excited or at least attached when she gets here. I know its hard for guys to realize what us ladies go through but sometimes his attitude makes it all so much worse. Even his mom says once he holds her he will be wrapped around her finger. I'm just doubtful because he's been so negative and frankly just mean :/ I know I'm hormonal and probably over sensitive but danm. Itshard to stay ppositive sometimes
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Wtf? that is soo mean!! Thats his kid, no matter what the gender is he made that lil being. if my boyfriend acted like that id be so hurt and mad. Maybe his mind will change once she gets here. Jeez.
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7375907 tn?1402102372
My husband wanted a girl and we are having a boy. I thought he was going to be upset but he was so happy when we found out as long as he was healthy and the fact that his baby wiener was half the baby leg.lol. but i think when he holds that girl for the first time he will fall in love.
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