Normally anyone who changes their story that often is lying. I can see thinking you are and finding out you aren't after a doctors appointment but if she is constantly going back and forth on everything from the time her doc appointments are to the actual pregnancy then I would say she is most likely lying about being preg. Maybe she is trying to use a pregnancy to get back together with you, or maybe she feels you hurt her and this is a way to get back at you. But either way... if she wont let you go to the doc with her and she wont show you a home pregnancy test then I'd say its a safe bet that she isn't pregnant.
ok thanks thats put my mind at ease a little bit wat shud i do, ignore her or demand her to do a test infront of me im not sure i just want to be left alone and to get on with my life
I don't think that "demanding" she do a pregnancy test will do any good. From what your post says it seems as though she enjoys keeping you guessing for some reason and demanding she do a test would only make her more angry and most likely would cause her to continue stringing you along. I can understand her not wanting you to be in the room when she goes to the doctor considering how you arent together anymore, BUT there is NO reason for her not to provide some sort of proof especially considering how she has changed her story so many times. Any normal person would want proof after everything she has said, so you aren't wrong for wanting proof. If I were you, I would tell her you want to meet and talk face to face about whats going on. Then act like you fully believe her pregnancy story and are excited about it. Then if she sticks to the story that she IS pregnant then tell her how excited you are and ASK her if YOU can buy her a pregnancy test (of course you will need an excuse as to why you are wanting her to take a test because if she thinks its because you don't believe her then she's gonna turn it around on you and start a fight so she can get out of taking one. Use an excuse like you want to take a picture to send it to a family member or close friend WHEN SHE decides she is ready to tell people). Ask her nicely to take one tho, like you are excited and NOT like you are accusing her of lying. If she refuses to take one or finds an excuse not to take one then you will know she isn't really pregnant. A woman who is really pregnant wouldn't mind taking a test because she would have nothing to hide. Does all that make sense? Sorry its so long! Hopefully it helps and I'd love to know how things turn out!
If she was bleeding really bad and wont give you a straight answer then she is probably not pregnant. I would tell her that until she takes a test that you purchase and does it in front of you that you will no longer be accepting her calls of responding to her texts.
She is so not pregnant by you not wanting our not caring to be with her makes her mad so she pulls what allot of girls do"I'm pregnant"it's the easiest way to get a mans attention but if she miss carried she obviously isn't pregnant and of she is it isn't yours most women even not ready being together would want you in the room she dosnt want you in there cuz she knew she was not pregnant made A fake appointment to throw you off I would change your number and leave the psycho alone