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i have been feeling very tired, sick to my stomach, threw up a few times. i took 2 pg tests n both were negative. i normally have a 31 day cycle. i got my period 3/12 - 3/15. normal period n everything then on 4/3 - 4/5 it was very very light n thats not normal. after that i started getting sick n being very tired n very moody at times. iv been very emotional. last night i cryed at a movie i had seen thousands of times n never cryed. i just want some answers. i have been trying to get pregnant, i hypothyroidism, please help thanks so much.
i have been to a therapist and i have always had a problem spelling. and i was on government health insurance and i got kicked off because of my age. n my mom is willing to help and i don't rely on others for everything im shy i don't like to talk 2 people in person that i don't know. im sorry i was abused as a baby. i was left alone for days on end never interacted with i never grew up with people around me i was always alone n i like it that way now n i did actively stop trying but im not going to go on birthcontrol just because someone told me i had to or not have sex. im looking into school im doing all this stuff to better myself but im not driving 3hrs away from my house just to go to a meeting for a school to be told im not going to be accepted n then have wasted the gas n money.
I've just been reading the posts on here and wondering if you 've got your period yet, you said you were due fo it on the 3rd May.
As for the other comments it's your life so do what you want to do.
As for the other comments it's your life so do what you want to do.
I know you really don't give a care what advice any of us give you but it is clear to (probably) all of us that you are not in a position to have a child at this point, much less try to have one. If you have sexual abuse and other emotional issues, you need to get help. I have been through a lot of complex issues too, including not being able to get pregnant for over 3 years and I started seeing a psychologist over a year ago to start laying out the troublesome issues I've faced, one at a time. I've learned that a baby is not going to get rid of those issues, they will ALWAYS be there but if you don't deal with them at all, they may very well drag you down. I am not trying to be super critical here, just seeing a lot of myself in some of the things you say. Education is important and you have not embraced aspects of it, including how to spell or use correct grammar. Hey, maybe it's not your cup of tea but if you think you are going to open your own business someday, you need to have some basic organization skills for running a business. Also, if you can't deal with making phone calls to your doctor for yourself, how are you going to "force yourself" to do it for your child? How are you going to afford being pregnant or having a child if you don't have medical insurance? This is not fair to you or your future child. There are a lot of issues here that you need to focus on and a lot of them go right back to learning how to respect the young woman that you are. You deserve to treat yourself better than you are and if you don't have health insurance, seek help from whatever government clinic you can. Start working a job (when you have your GED or high school diploma) and see what you like and don't like doing. I completely understand that you don't know what career you want, a lot of adults don't either, but you have to start somewhere and stop relying on others to help you stay afloat. Please understand that even though we are strangers, a lot of us have been in your shoes in some way, shape, or form and come out on the other side better people because of the choices we made and learned from. We just are trying to keep you from making mistakes that will make it harder to live your life and there's so much of it left, people just want the best for you. Take care.
i no n i no wat i can do i cleaned my moms bosses home before, i can cook, i could b a nanny or start my own daycare n im trying 2 get my ged n people wont tell me watt i want 2 no im not a person who likes 2 talk 2 strangers on the phone i would rather ail or txt not call. i cant even talk 2 my own dr on the fone i have my mom or bf do it. now if i was gunna b a mommy i would force myself to now the whole needles thing nope not gunna happen i have been stuck so many times n my dad had cancer so i saw him get stuck a lot. i told my bf im asking the dr b4 so he can get off work for a while to take care of that wen we have a baby cuz i cant hold my dog so she can get her shots im not gunna have my baby in my arms n feel like im a horrible mom cuz they got shots
I could have, but I wouldn't have my husband or daughter. I would have moved states and been in school for 10-20 years to get a Doctorate. (I would have gone to school for Science. It's my utter passion.) An education though--no matter how much you hate it--is VITAL to do anything in this country though. Many employers are looking at even an Associates degree (or maybe it's a bachelors...I can't remember) as being equivalent to a high school diploma. Without a High School diploma or GED no company wants you. You can't always depend on others to be your financial support. If (not saying it will, but there's always the possibility) your partner leaves and say you're pregnant. How will you pay for things? Or say you have a child together and he walks out the door. Regardless of how good his job might be or can be, you need to always have that back up plan. I'm not trying to lecture or anything at all, these are just general points that anyone regardless of where they are in life or what their plans are need to keep in mind.
ok i would have rather went on the trip also lol. i would have asked if u wanted 2 go 2 school for drawing or science if u could do that next year or next semester. n i have 2 finish high school my mom pulled me out n homeschooled me n i hated it n didn't bother doing it because she thought i had 2 get a B n above
Who cares what other people say. What you do with your life is YOUR choice, not theirs. If someone told you would make a bad mother would you not have children? No. You'd do it because you want to have a baby. You can't always listen to what other people say and have to go for what you want. Make yourself happy in your life. You don't want to be 70 and look back on your life in regret for choices you made. I had two scholarships to go to college (one in drawing and the other in science) and declined both to go overseas for two months. I've never once regretted it, even though I've been told by everyone I've ever met I'm an idiot to do that. Maybe I am an idiot, but I at least got a once in a chance lifetime I never would have gotten otherwise. (The trip was fully paid for by someone else, including food and board)
i just went for my annual pap n it came back normal after last year it came back abnormal, thats wen she did a general health screening n i found out about the hypothyroidism. i would love 2 go 2 school for singing n learn how 2 play the violin n piano but im 2 old 2 learn n iv been told i suck at singing so thats out of the question n cooking is just stupid 2 go 2 school iv been told so i have nothing 2 go 4 period
That's the hard things about life though. There will always be things we don't like, and regardless it is something you just have to deal with. (I don't mean this in concept to college either. I mean it as a general aspect) Regardless though of what anyone says, you will do as you please. I encourage you to speak to a doctor and get looked at if pregnancy is really something you want.
not really because i hate school n if i don't like it i will just quite n it would have been a waste of money
I really do hope you look into birth control options. There are many different types out there that you can try and see what works best for you. Having unprotected sex will only get you into a bad situation, and it's not walk in the park to give your baby up for adoption. My cousin is adopted and also has given her baby up for adoption. She thinks about that baby every single day of her life. It's not easy. Your best bet would be to use birth control to prevent pregnancy. Just because you have not gotten pregnant before does not mean you won't later on, so you need to protect yourself. Your family and others "lecture" you because they want what is best for you and to have a good life. College has so many options and fields you cn get into. Do some research and look into what you can try to study. There is something for everyone.
thank u i no they cost a lot of money i no u need money 2 buy stuff but my bf could get ALOT better job than i could. and i don't plan on birthcontrol its called i don't like it im not getting aniud im not getting anything thats gunna screw up my body and i haven't gotten pg in the last 2 years so y would it happen now is how i look at it n if i did i no adoption is a great way to give a couple a baby n i would gladly do it. i was adopted but it wasn't good.
The only reason people suggest these things is so that if/when you have children you have good financial means to support them. Nothing more. As much as you hate birth control as well, eventually it will be something you need to look into unless you plan to abstain from sex. Children cost a lot of money and you might get to the point where you can't support them.
In terms of what is wrong though, it could be a few things. Symptoms though mean nothing in regards to if you're pregnant or not so you can't solely base it on those. Desire alone (or fear depending on the situation) can cause most of these and women are quite good at over-analyzing everything they feel when they want something. Since your last cycle was abnormal a test should accurately show if you're pregnant or not. You can also see a doctor for a blood test. Make sure it's a beta draw, and find out what you're hCG level is it. If that's negative, you know for sure that you're not pregnant.
In terms of what is wrong though, it could be a few things. Symptoms though mean nothing in regards to if you're pregnant or not so you can't solely base it on those. Desire alone (or fear depending on the situation) can cause most of these and women are quite good at over-analyzing everything they feel when they want something. Since your last cycle was abnormal a test should accurately show if you're pregnant or not. You can also see a doctor for a blood test. Make sure it's a beta draw, and find out what you're hCG level is it. If that's negative, you know for sure that you're not pregnant.
collage has nothing i want to go for. and its the lube not the spermicide n also he cant ever *** if he wears a condom. n if i wanted 2 i could do a lot of things have i done them no because my family n everyone else telling me its stupid. iv been thru a lot of death iv been thru sexual abuse iv basically been thru it all. im against birthcontrol i hate it i can barely take my meds i have 2 take 2 keep me healthy. i had nova ring it was a pain in my *** because i could feel it in there during sex, it was hard 2 remember 2 put it in after sex or just on time for that matter n it messed up my cycle thanks 2 that it made my periods heavier, i was on depo n it was nice but had so many side effects n can make u sterile, n it takes up to 3 years to get outta yr system. everyone sounds like my family n i hate that every one is telling me watt i have to n cant do. n how am i supposed 2 afford collage even if i wanted 2 my mom has no way of helping n my soon 2 b hubby cant help he has his loans 2 pay off? i HATE school n would need 2 finish 1st to get into collage. n the reason i hate school is because of the people i had a terrible teachers n classmates. n im not moving away from my family. n also i no all this stuff i just wanted help figuring out wats wrong not a lecture from people i don't no wen i get the same lecture at EVERY SINGLE HOLIDAY event i go 2 n even in public from my family.
Maybe this is a sign that it's time to get your life in order first....college is an important step towards making a stable future for your child. not everyone does it and plenty of people do fine, but if you want things to go smoothly and to afford nice things WHILE taking adequate care of your child, the degree helps immensely. It doesn't mean you can't if you don't have a degree, but it really does help. my earning potential is significantly higher than my husband's because I have 1 degree and he hasn't completed his yet.
anyway, when it comes to protection -they make larger condoms, and they make them without the spermicidal lubricant. my husband is allergic to it as well.
best of luck whatever happens with you, it really can take a long time for even a normal healthy couple to conceive, so don't give up hope if this is really what you've decided to do.
anyway, when it comes to protection -they make larger condoms, and they make them without the spermicidal lubricant. my husband is allergic to it as well.
best of luck whatever happens with you, it really can take a long time for even a normal healthy couple to conceive, so don't give up hope if this is really what you've decided to do.
There are other forms of birth control to use. There are non-latex condoms and condoms also come in all different sizes. There are also non-hormonal types of birth control for women as well, if you don't want to use a hormonal method. College is not a waste of time and you study a topic of your choice, preparing you for a career you want to work. Education is never a waste of time or money. A good education can open many doors and really help you throughout your life in so many different ways. I would encourage you to continue your education, to help your future and a possible child's future, so you can be a better parent for them.
i did stop trying im not going on birthcontrol n y should he wear condoms wen im allergic 2 the lube thats on them n he's 2 big for them 2 fit n if he dose use them they break? so wat i was 17 n was trying? i want a baby n thats it there is nothing i want 2 do n if i spent money n time going 2 collage it would b a total waste of time.
It can take any normal, healthy couple several months to conceive, so try to be patient. Plus a medical condition can make it just that much more complicated. Try to keep on top of your thyroid issues. You say you've been trying to conceive for the last 2 years, so you started trying to get pregnant at 17? Maybe you should take some time off from ttc and work toward your future, going to school and getting a career. Then try again later when you have more stability in life and won't have to stress as much about finances and how everything will work out.
i haven't taken one in 8 days n the last 2 tests i did were with FMU. and if its negative again i will be going to my doctor for a blood work. n thank you im hoping im pregnant iv been trying for the past 2years so this would b awsome
i took the tests 4/12 then again 4/20. i have the period app for the ipod n my next period should come 5/3.
yes im on levothyroxin. i haven't gone back because i no longer have my health insurance but im talking to my mom and seeing what i can do but i have one refill left so hopefully i can figure that out. i wasn't high in my tsh i was like 7.41 or so. but i am looking into going in even tho my blood draws take anywhere from 5-15 mins thanks to my blood vessels moving all the time.
If you haven't taken a test in the last few days I would test again with FMU. A HPT should be picking up on your HCG levels this late after your LMP. If it still reads negative go to your doctor for blood work. They can figure out if you're pg or what is going on. Good luck!
When is the last time you took a test? I have friends who didn't test positive until over a week after their missed period. It's kind of hard to determine your timeline here based on this info... but could the light spotting you had possibly been implantation bleeding or was it heavier than that? That would put you at approx. the right timeline for that possibility?
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