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Is it normal to hate your partner in early pregnancy

Is it normal to not want to be bothered with your partner when you are in early pregnancy? if so does it ever stop throughout the pregnancy, bc i love my man but ever since I've become pregnant everything about him irks my nerves...from his voice, to him wanting to cuddle beside of me. I am only seven weeks and a day, but I was just wondering is this normal. Has anybody else been going through or have gone through this?
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I am wondering the same! Cant stand to be touched, kissed hugged anything. Its like im disgusted and just ugh! And I just see him and get mad. Anything he does just irks me. I dont even like talking to him anymore.  Never had this problem with first 2 babys.  Is this normal ?
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4756995 tn?1358800430
well i hope it goes away for me soon too, because my fiance and i live together and I have been contemplating getting my own apartment just to be away from him. Before this whole pregnancy thing i didn't feel like this. I cant help it at all though. I usually want him to go everywhere with me now I just want to be alone.
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4756995 tn?1358800430
LOL yea thats a good one. I am going to try that!
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I was this way from 5 weeks to 12. It was awful and my fiancee didn't understand and it really strained everything, but it does go away (thank goodness). I was mostly so sick I didn't want to be touched at all. I knew I loved him but just couldn't stand him. Now things are ok :)
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Definitely hormonal and its okay to be honest to him and tell him that you love him to death but you cant help that everything he does is irritating. I am 37 weeks pregnant and my husband and i have fought so much during this pregnancy and ive contemplated if i should think about divorce. I would say we are dedinitely 50-50 have the time hes just **** and half the tine i am completely irrational. I have apent my whole day in my room and have only came out to eat 2x because i cant stand looking at him. I hope that gets worked out cause i dont wanna go into my csection hating my husband .
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4837255 tn?1359863251
No its not them its our hormones lol. We are off Balance you have to remember that. Our hormones don't go back till normal until few weeks after baby born. So tell him you don't mean it but just tell him to be quiet for the next 100 or 200 more days.
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Hahahaha I get so annoyed with my husband... He always wants to touch my boobs and stuff but I just can't stand being touched so I try not to say anything then apparently every night I yell at him for trying to cuddle in my sleep hahaha but even his kids annoy me I can't stand kids right now I'm 22 wks and I have been told it doesn't get better
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its normal! hahhaha with my daughter [first pregnancy] i HATED my husband didnt want him looking at me or touching me :/ with my son [my second] i loved him and he dint like me :( and this one! i cant stand him! hahahah when im not preggo were good and happy but pregnancy. bleh! its amazing we can make a baby and they are a great blessing! but the whole pregnancy thing. AHH! NOT the greatest feeling :/
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3419238 tn?1353081771
Ill be 30 weeks tomorrow ad I'm still going through this. I love him to death but everything he does or says pisses me off
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4584876 tn?1358994031
Calm down. Just talk to him tell him how you feel right now I'm sure he'll understand and try going to a movie or something by yourself. It will get better.
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4756995 tn?1358800430
omg this is awful...how did you deal with it?
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4756995 tn?1358800430
oh no! it may never go away...that is awful. is it just him or what is it?
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4756995 tn?1358800430
lol dang...we have about broken up like every 2 weeks. I wonder will it go away for me.
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4756995 tn?1358800430
honestly that is how I feel, i feel like deep down inside I know I do, but as of now I don't want him. I feel bad for feeling this way, and I cant help it.
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4331946 tn?1355816857
Im 5mnths im here brwakingnup with him every week -.-  i feel like ever since i got prego i dont love him no more lol
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4368956 tn?1357406071
Absolutelty! My husband has rubbed me wrong this entire pregnancy
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4837255 tn?1359863251
I'm now 5 months pregnant with twins. I don't like him even more lol
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Not that I disliked  him more like I was soooo sick I couldn't really deal with anybody ...I just tried to stay to myself mostly
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4837255 tn?1359863251
Yes mines were very aggravating I had to break up with him in my 2 or 3 month
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4584876 tn?1358994031
I did I just wanted him gone. But it was because he wasn't paying any attention to me.
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