You have your family. They will give you more support than this jerk. I mean that he is being a straight up jerk and he sounds like he just wants to control you. This is your body your baby and If is going to abandon you and say things like that then I honestly believe he never loved you. A real man wouldn't say things like that. And my brothers girlfriend is a great mom even though she has some mental health issues. I also want you to keep this in mind that baby will give you all the love you will ever need. I mean that I never in my life knew the meaning of true love until I had my little boy. I've never wanted to be such a good person until he arrived. Children change your lives but they are such a gift blessing and miracle that you can't live with out them. A child is wonderful and I would go to the ends of the earth to protect my child. And my husband knows that If he leaves he will not take my child with him. He knows that I will raise and support our child and that I don't need him. But he loves us both that he would never do that. Show him that you are strong. You don't need that kind of guy in your life. You need a man that will be there for you and your child no matter what.
Unless your meds have been known to cause severe birth defects, I think you should be fine. Like the accutane acne medicine, you have to sign papers stating you won't get pregnant while using and it clearly states in the packaging not to take it if there's a chance of pregnancy. Some antidepressants, etc can cause birth defects if taken throughout your pregnancy, but some are safe to use. Your best bet would be to pose this question with your ob. They would have a better grasp of what, if any, birth defects to be looking for.
The first 8 weeks the baby isn't connected to your blood supply until it starts growing the placenta. Don't worry and ask your boyfriend to research about early embryo growth and the fetal pole.
Don't abort your baby. Tell him no matter what it is still a human and that you love your baby. Ask him how he would feel If he had something happen in his life that made him challenged would he want to be put to death.
I would also suggest him watch a video called the silent scream. I've seen it and it is heartbreaking. Also tell you would rather speak with your obgyn first and see a doctors opinion.
Don't worry quite yet. You could also tell him all creatures have different features.
Lastly my brothers girlfriend was on the same thing and stopped taking it the moment she found out she's pregnant. She talked to the doctor and they reassured her and her son is now a happy healthy 14 months old little boy
I say congratulations and wait to see what a professional has to say first.
Girl u do not need him in the end u will have a beautiful baby and a great family to help u......i dont think any of the stuff you were doing will hurt the baby just do as u are doing now and stay away from it.....start ur prenatal vitamin it makes a world of difference......u dont need that man ib ur life if all je wants u to do is get rid of what u two created good luck to you and please keep me updated.....