OT: Sorry :)

[Cassandrajane]

Hi everyone, I have been ill for the past week so I have been in bed sleeping it off :). LOL....
Erm, I found out John didn't cheat he just fancied this girl. Broke up with me, then realised what he did and now we are sorting everything out, and I am happy again... He was also scared about becoming a dad.
I know there is no excuse for it.... but apprently it happens alot. In men and pregnancy..

But sorry I haven't been on much, I have had a stomach bug,,, and been trying to get better!

Hope everyone is Okay :) Anything new?

xx

[Cassandrajane]

John is 6ft.... LOL! Harry is going to be LONG!
John is HUGE he is just skinny and underweight...  LOL!
I also have to have Harry's heart tested when he is born because of a Murmur! :(..

But hopefully everything turns out great. Just want this Snow to go!

xx

[Ashelen]

Be grateful John's not too big...I'm 5'2' but both of my babies were very long because their daddy is about 6'...so they were always cramped in the end and both have measured over 85% for height and usually above 90% all their lives. Phew. lol

[Cassandrajane]

We are getting help. I told him I don't trust him, he said, I gotta keep being Happy and the usual fruit loop I am...
Which I don't think anywhere... but sometimes I break did us good. And he grew up after my scan and realised he lost all his family because of this, and she cheated on him as well... Which I DID NOT Laugh at much...

But at the end of the day, after what he did I want him happy at the end of the day... and he was just scared of being a dad...
It is a poor excuse and it peeed me off. But he makes me happy (not as happy as you guys thoughh) haha!

(My scan pic is up,) Harry is a bit small, but that's because I am a small person at 5ft 2''. :). Little titch me. Haha, I have another scan at 36 weeks. Wooo. All he did was Yawn again, and John cried...

Don't worry Ivy, i'll let him know... He wont do it again he knows what he will lose now..

and Ammmmmmmmanda, I added you on Facebook :). LOL...

Glad everyone is doing okay, we have LOTS of snow... :(... I don't want snow... LOL..

xx

[Raerae336]

Lol i agree! Im glad you are happy, however, im hoping you stood your ground and you let him know that it is not acceptable. I hate how men can get away with such excuses, that they are scared.. Ummm we have to carry the baby, be used as a pin cushion at the doc, deliver the baby and possibly raise it alone because they are scared? Poor excuse in my opinion. I agree that you deserve better. I hope that if he ever puts you through something like that again you kiss his rear goodbye and dont think twice!!:) glad youre feeling better!

[ammanda]

Ohh Cassandra i missed you :) dont ever leave me again Douche!!! LOL

Nothing new with me, except my 21st is coming sooner then ever.. 19days and counting lol

I hope you feel better soon!! :(

Cole is getting so big, i think he will crawl sooner then i thought.  He figured out how to scream without being mad and he wouldnt stop last night, and its a hugee scretching scream!!! lol

[Ashelen]

Well I'm glad he didn't cheat...but if he does it again, I'm'a come give him an earful. I have family over there don't think I won't! lol

I'm sorry you were sick but I'm glad you're back, I know I for one was concerned about where you were...and I can promise that there were other people worried too...so it's very good to see you back.

In case you can't tell from my pretty purple flower they made me Co-Community Leader of this board and I'm very honored...but it's a lot more responsibility than I thought in some ways, lol.

Be sure to check out our "and today's topic is..." posts, every day is a new topic :). You missed Monday Madness (pick a topic to vent about) but I bet you could've said quite a few things after this fiasco with John LOL.

Anyway....hope you feel better, glad you're back...and doubly glad that you're working things out with John. I don't think he's good enough for you, but if he makes you happy and doesn't hurt you again I say give it a try. However if he hurts you again...Johnny pancakes. Not really, but you know what I mean, lol. I'll talk his ear off!