PPD/postpartum depression

[Bdenise]

Any moms that have this? I'm one of those unfortunate and it's scary. Anyone want to share with me their experience or ways they delt with this? I'm a first time mom, I'm desperate, and I'm definitely not happy at all. My poor baby does not deserve a mom like me who's always mad or sad I need help please someone

[EmaleeJoy]

I'm currently going through this still at almost 6 months postpartum. I'm a big believer in not taking anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds because I used to take them and they made me more depressed and really sick once I decided to stop taking them. I'm mad 99.9% of the time and I get so mad that I tear everyone else down with me. For me it helps a lot to have something exciting to look forward to... I try getting outside with my son and going on walks or going to the zoo. Also, therapy can help loads...try getting some exercise while your baby is sleeping or getting dressed up/ready for the day even if you're not going anywhere! I know I find myself sitting in the house day after day looking like a bum and it makes it so much harder for me to try and accept things and be happy!

[Tricia0818]

I went through it with my first , it was really bad. I also suffer from depression and anxiety before I had kids so I took an anti depressant before hand so I knew that's what I needed to do again to help regulate my moods. Yes speak with your doctor asap! Your doing an awesome job being aware of your feelings , Do not feel like a bad mother because you are an awesome mother! It happens everyday and not everyone will admit they are feeling this way! It's tough but you will get through this and your start to feel better! Good luck momma!

[lanema21]

I would say I went thru this the first week but it went away. I know sometimes u lasts longer u could ask for help hun. For me I feel like I was just scared and didn't know how to take care of my baby, I was paranoid something wrong would happen but I must say having an understanding spouse helps alot .. hood luck honey you'll be fine and remember ask for help!

[Roxxxy915]

Ihad it after ihad my 1st , it was horriable iwas like that for up to a yr. After my pregnancy iweighed 132 . W.the ppd that hole yr iweighed 95lbs it was bad. My husband only made it worse & worse each day ifelt so helpless. Iwould cry all the time. But w.my daughter on thee other hand iwas so over protective it was crazy!!!! Talk to your ob about it cause having ppd isnt NO fun!!!

[Bdenise]

Yes I have my boyfriend here who is very supportive, I have his mom and dad who help me out so much with my baby they take him just so that I get some rest and peace.. Even with that, I'm still miserable. It's just a horrible feeling I wish it would go away. I'm aggressive and mean especially if I don't rest. When does this go away? :( thank you for the prayer I try to pray as much as possible and perhaps I'll be normal again. I have hope but I don't know how to deal with this

[chrno]

Talk to your Ob. PPD is treatable and it could save your relationship with your baby. Our little ones can sense our energies so when we're happy,sad, anxious, etc they know. I had it too. I hardly wanted anything to do with my daughter and the guilt that comes with it only depressed me more. My SO didn't understand and was angry at me for feeling the way I did and that made it so much harder. Reach out to people who will understand, have someone watch the baby for a little bit if possible, and go take care of yourself. It does pass and you'll be able to enjoy your baby.

[CGutierrez813]

I can't say I have ever had postpartum depression but when I had my first baby I did get very overwhelmed and frustrated a month after having her. She was going through a growth spur which I didn't realize at the time and even though her father lived with me he didn't help. I would cry and leave the room to calm down. I'm sorry your going through this. I will pray for you and prayer is the best way to get through this. Do you have family or a partner to help you ?