Please help, am I pregnant? I'm freaking out!

[KahlanAmnell]

My last period was february 1 and I have been expecting my next period March 1, and now I'm two days late. I know I ovulated around the 15 or 16, however, two weeks ago (about a week after my expected ovulation date) I was messing around with my fiance. There was no penetration or ejaculation. We were both naked from the waist down and I was using his shaft between my legs, but I kept his tip as far away as possible. (he even has his hand covering it, just in case) Despite this, I think when we pulled away from each other, his tip MIGHT have touched my vulva. I'm not sure. Details are a bit hazy.

However, I thought since I already ovulated, I was no longer fertile. And I thought someone could not get pregnant without penetration AND ejaculation. He ejaculated in the bathroom and washed his hands afterwards...and from what I remember,there was not a lot of pre-ejaculate. But now I am freaking out. I've been reading stories on the internet of girls actually getting pregnant without penetration or ejaculation, but somehow get pregnant because pre-*** got rubbed near their vulva. I am two days late on my period. I'm not even having my normal period symptoms. No stomach aches, no cramps, no tender breasts. I know this sounds incredibly stupid because I'm an adult and I'm about to get married in four months, but I am scared I am pregnant.

Please help me. I've barely slept for the last couple days, I am so anxious.

[meghannandbaby]

The only way to know is to take a test

[cruiz2]

Your probably late because your stressing out. You should just wait it out and test once your at least 1-2 weeks late.
Best of luck!

[Madisonsmom1]

I think it's very unlikely that you're pregnant. If you stress about being pregnant or have stress in general it can delay your period. Are the feeling nausea, increase appetite or more tired than usual? Those are common signs of pregnancy other than just having a late period. Only a test can tell you for sure if you are or not.

[KahlanAmnell]

The only reason why I feel nausea is because I have been worrying myself sick all day. Days ago, I haven't felt any difference in appetite and sickness. I just felt normal. I will say that a week ago, I was EXTREMELY stressed out (my fiance and I were trying to choose a date, and both our families were unhappy with every date we chose) so of course, I got little sleep that week due of the stress, plus, I do have anxiety. I feel like I'm going to be that one girl that didn't have sex but still got pregnant that everyone talks about to their children to scare them into not having sex...

So should I go ahead and buy a pregnancy test today?  

[Madisonsmom1]

If it puts your mind at ease I would buy the test just to feel better about it. Good luck :-)

[KahlanAmnell]

I think I might, but is it really worth $10 for something that will most likely come out negative? I mean, all I had was his shaft between my legs, and he ejaculated in the bathroom, far away from me.

[KahlanAmnell]

I took two pregnancy test (First Response) both came back negative. But my period is still no where in sight. Should I stop worrying or is there still a chance I am pregnant?

[maw4389]

The fact that you never actually had intercourse with him makes it unlikely that you are pregnant.

[katelyn_rodriguez]

Wait a little longer if your period doesn't come try testing again.  

[mandajayne0333]

Honestly your period is probably just late. It happens.

[Travismommy24]

Is their a reason you are scared to be pregnant?

[KahlanAmnell]

@Travismommy24, Well, honestly, I'm about to get married in 4 months. Both my fiance and I are technical vigrins..we have never had intercourse, but we've done other things. Having a pregnancy would result in disaster. Both our families will never talk to us again. I will have to drop out of college, we might get kicked out of of our Christian university for breaking the lifestyle covenant, and we will never be accepted as missionaries, as we have talked about becoming.
I cannot afford to get pregnant right now, so yes, there are many reasons why I am scared to be pregnant.

[hollyhollyholly]

I was 9 days late last month and I thought I was pregnant but i wasn't I  i was just  I ovulated late and my period came late

[KahlanAmnell]

Update: My period came today! But it's a very light flow. It started off with light brown spotting (last night) and it got a little heavier with more fresh blood, but it's not a normal heavy flow that I usually get the first day. However, I feel quite relieved! I am not pregnant! :)