Pregnancy from this?

[notreelyirish]

ok so last week my guy friend and I were fooling around and he fingered me. As far as i know there was no pre-*** on his hands. Actually he had undone his pants but when he fingered my his pants were on and were not undone. My pants were still on he just stuck his hand in and fingered me that way., Am i just being paranoid about being pregnant? Its not like we had sex and i think im just overreacting. I can get pregnant this way can I? I helped him finish after he helped me but i was the one to undo his pants and he finished in my mouth and he never touched me so i think im just overreacting. comments?

[Clysta]

You could retest if you wanted. I would suggest that you reconsider how ready you are for sexual activity though. This shouldn't cause you this much concern and worry. Good luck.

[notreelyirish]

ok so any suggestions on how to convince myself im ok? I took a pregnancy test last week (fri) and im due for my period this sunday or so. any way i can be less worried? there def wasnt any penetration im just still always concerned about this kind of thing

[Clysta]

No, it's possible. But there would need to be large amounts of ejaculation on him and he would have had to immediately have shoved it up inside of you. Sperm do not die as soon as they touch air, but don't live long outside the body. You have nothing, nor any reason to worry. If pregnancy was this easy to accomplish there would be a lot more babies born than there are now.

[notreelyirish]

so then whats the deal with everyone always talking about possibly getting pregnant if something is on his hands? Is it more just hype and people being misinformed? I def didnt see anything on his hands and like i said his penis was no where near my vagina. I think its more just me worrying that he touched his penis before he touched me but then he redid his pants so...

[AHP84]

Here's a brief description of how conception and pregnancy occurs:

- Semen or pre-ejaculate must be around or inside the vagina.
- The fluids in the vagina are acidic and kill most of the sperm.
- The sperm that do survive in the vagina must swim through the cervix and into the uterus. This can only happen around the approximate four day timeframe when the cervix is slightly open for ovulation.
- The sperm are so small that it takes approximately 2-5 days for them to swim towards the top of the uterus and into the falopian tubes, where the egg waits for fertilization.
- The egg can only be fertilized within a 24 hour window of time before it dies.
- If it happens to get fertilized, it has to move down the falopian tubes and into the uterus.
- Once in the uterus, it has to implant into the uterin wall to begin any more development, and that in and of itself is sometimes rejected by the mother's body with antibodies, attacking it as a foreign object in the body.

So, based on your description of what happened, it's about 99.99999% likely that you are not pregnant.

[julianovak]

You should read about how pregnancy happens.

[Clysta]

Indeed. You could read up on conception and what all it takes for pregnancy to occur so you don't freak out when this happens again.

[notreelyirish]

so basically im just overreacting....there was nothing visible on his hands and his pants were on. He had undone his pants previously but then rebuttoned them before he fingered me. So I basically just need to relax bc theres no way im pregnant?

[Clysta]

Because there's nothing here to suggest it's possible. Unless sperm or any form of ejaculation was on or in your vagina pregnancy is impossible.

[notreelyirish]

whats your reasoning for thinking Im not?

[AHP84]

I'm pretty certain you are not pregnant.