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Sex

I hope that caught your attention.  The correct term when finding out if the baby is a male or female is SEX, not gender.  No prenatal test is going to tell you your child's gender.

A child's SEX is biological.  XX or XY, penis or vagina.
A child's GENDER is psychological.

The majority of the time they do match up but they are NOT interchangeable.
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1330108 tn?1333677304
I am so glad I'm not the only one. Seriously when I read these posts asking if they are "pregnent" I want to reply I sure as sh*t hope not if you can't even spell the d@mn word!  Sigh, this forum really made me think twice about the "general public". I wish there were more intelligent people out there like you ladies!

And why on Earth to people pregnant with one child say their "bags of waters" broke. Is there really more than one amniotic sac while pregnant with a single child?  At first I thought well gee I am finishing up a Ph.D. so maybe it's just that my IQ is higher therefore I can spell things like pregnant and know that you cannot get pregnant from being "fingered" :P
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290867 tn?1333569278
Ok just went back and read these posts!!! HILARIOUS!!!!
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290867 tn?1333569278
Im with you 100% I dont think it really matters!!!
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Ok so I was having a pretty bad day then I read this! You all crack me up! But I completely agree!

Ik my spelling s*cks and I use text but I'm texting so its hard for me! But I try not to spell pregnant and such wrong! :@ you all made my night

Cassandra-fyi I ask DB is we could have gender tonight and he said What?! Lol.
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1181036 tn?1367368640
lol your comment about pregnate and virginia are hilarious. I notice a lot of people spell pregnant wrong even though this is a pregnancy forum.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Lmfao. Such random thoughts.
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951898 tn?1296134343
5n1
lol Ashelen..you crack me up:)
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1035252 tn?1427227833
you know this post ties in with what smjmekg asked about changing a baby's gender/sex using the IVF methods...does changing their sex change their gender? hmm! the world may never know ;)
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726324 tn?1324074610
I just wanted to add to this rather random thread that XX is Vagina and XY is Penis.

Thought i would add something random in here!
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1240706 tn?1331602111
What I find most interesting about this is that as condescending as it does come off, WifeofAnt, you yourself used the term "gender" in a post in April.  Like the others said, people use that term because it is widely accepted, and used even by the birthing centers, obstetrical offices, and ultrasound facilities.  If they called it a "Sex Scan" rather than a "Gender Scan" a whole different thought would prevail.  
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1303813 tn?1303159362
I'm going to say it to my BF....

some pretty good gender LOL! and then like in the movies he will have a fag... And go mmm mmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm some pretty good gender right there. LOL...

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676912 tn?1332812551
Cassandra~~~LOL! Too funny.
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Oh, I was talking about another post in this post some how I tried to relate them but I forgot why...

I have to put full stops... and punctuation, I don't know why, it's like OCD. If I don't put normal punctuation, there will be full stops and commars (I can't spell it) and I will always break up my sentences, and start new paragraphs cause I like it LOL...
But text language really does my Noodle in, did they teach you how to spell like that at school? Nope.

Ashelen, my BF used to write like that, you will see a random capital letter. So it will be like
Hi my nAme is JoHn, I slapped it out of him. he uses text language, BUT not as bad a some people he would put 2moz and mre, and things, but I understand what he means. Not like some people! LOL....

This convo started about sex and gender LOL....
do you think some people go, I think we should have Gender tonight?? LOL..
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134578 tn?1693250592
I+AM+NOT+FOND+OF+THE+POSTS+THAT+LOOK+LIKE+THIS+EITHER+IT+IS+VERY+HARD+TO+READ+THEM... I don't even know how one gets to an all-caps post with plus marks in between the words -- does some software do it automatically?  The caps-lock feature doesn't do it, at least on my computer -- it just puts equals signs in between.  I also have trouble reading posts where the poster does not break up their thoughts, so the entire thing is technically one sentence even though about eighty-five (or a hundred eighty five or two hundred eighty five) words long.  
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676912 tn?1332812551
Ashelen~~~OMG! You have made my day! LOL LOL LOL!!! BTW thanks, I didn't have to pee when I opened this post...lol. aNd YeS tHaT aNnOyS mE tOo!!!

Anyways, I don't think we really need to make fun of this post, it does have a valid point...BUT we can't expect everyone to be correct with their way of words, or spelling...for example, different people have different phrases, or use words differently because of their backgrounds, as far as where they are in the world. You can't expect people to be correct 100% of the time. I'm sure if you look through everyone's posts SOMEWHERE no matter what you want to believe...I guarantee there's at least ONE mess up...

BUT this post has brightened my days a little, given everything I've been going through the last few days, I've needed a good laugh!
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1035252 tn?1427227833
oop, sorry meant to add OR THE POSTS THAT LOOK LIKE THIS!?!??!?! FULL OF GRAMMATICAL ERRORS AND HORRENDEOUS SPELLING MISTAKES!?!??! NOT SURE WHY I WOULD WANT TO REPLY TO A POST LIKE THIS INSTEAD OF ONE TYPED THOUGHTFULLY OUT WITH PROPER CAPITALIZATION AND ALL!?!??!??!

sometimes you feel like a *nut*....sometimes you don't...
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1035252 tn?1427227833
Cassandra...what on earth are you talking about one reply up? Just curious...couldn't follow.

That's hilarious AnnieBrooke I guess we think the same when it comes to offensively posted words, LOL.

Not to go off on a rant about posters, but I honestly need to know...has anyone else just about had it with ThE pOsTs ThAt LoOk LiKe ThIs?!
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1303813 tn?1303159362
Haha...
I am too young to do an Intellligender test. Because I am 17, they go from 18 up! LOL


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971074 tn?1362759766
Uh...
Well I guess somebody should tell the makers of the Intelligender test this info.
:)
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1303813 tn?1303159362
I forgot. I thing we are just taking the piddle outta sayings now!. This all started because we were all getting the Gender and Sex thing completely Wrong!! Its the same thing, It's not he end of the world if someone says Gender instead of sex. Woah!

I am in a right b!tchy mood today, all cause of that douche bag that said I ruined my life!! Oh he's was drink at 8:30 AM. Wearing a POLICE TAG!!!!!!!!!!! WHO'S LIFE IS RUINED?? Er HIS.... IDIOT! LOL.

Yeah I say things like Head,  TO MY BOYFRIEND!! No one else LOL....
Cause it's us. And he has a Pokey Stick LOL!

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1351369 tn?1294831629
lol! yeah the "sucked my juices dry" post was totally obscene. I couldn't finish reading it,it was creating very unholy images in my head.LOL!!!  But well,what are we still talking about by the way??
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1303813 tn?1303159362
OMG! rdh1981 I SAW THAT POST!!!
OH DEAR!! S uc ked me dry.. NO WAY!! I laughed and told my bf, and he just looked at me and went did you say that you CHAV! I was like no John shut up, I didn't say it, it was someone on here douche!

But if we did spend all our time politically correcting people we would be a DICTIONARY not a MEDhelp forum....

Why can't people say Oral sex? Why... Fingering, and FISTING! ARGH, its not something you really wanna hear well read... I normally come across these posts when I am eating something and I believe to be so unlucky when that happens.
But why can't you say Oral sex. Okay, I can't say anything really, when I talk to my BF cause we are slightly mental we do say 'Head' for B.job. and we do say Fingering, BUT I WOULD NEVER WRITE IT ON HERE! I would say ORAL SEX!  Because thats what it is. We don't make up words for actual sex...
Yeah talking to my BF I take the **** and say that pokey stick aint coming near me, I am tired LOL... Sooo.... But that is just between me and my bf. I don't care cause its us.

But things people come up with are fooking HILARIOUS!.

another one is and he 'EXPLODED'

HAHAHA!

But seriously if we spent all our time correcting people we would be a walking typing dictonary.. :)

xx
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1222635 tn?1366396286
ps i got a huge laugh out of some of you ladies responses. i was reading them to DH. not sure if he cared, but i had to share. :) thanks for entertaining me for awhile.
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1222635 tn?1366396286
im gonna try not to get mad here but i tend to lean on the conservative side and i think this post is COMPLETELY unecessary.
sorry just had to throw in my two cents.
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