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I'm 29 weeks pregnant and ever since I've been pregnant sex hurts really bad to the point I almost can't do it. I feel so bad for my boyfriend because he feels like it's his fault. Is there anyway to help make it feel better?
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I've tried laying on my side and it doesn't help and doggy was painful for me even before pregnancy so I think I'm screwed lol
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Try having sex while laying on your side. He wont be able to go that far in, but it still feels AMAZING for the both of you. I find that if you lay on your side and put your back towards him works best considering facing him would only be difficult because of your bump.
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Hey I was the same way for a long time I would feel so bad because I would start and could not finish all I can say is keep out fun for now the pain will go away but don't force it he should understand
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I have been the same way since about 20 weeks my daughter has been very low my whole pregnancy and the pain during sex can be unbearble sometimes. I found doggy style to work the best for comfort when i am able to do it i feel bad for my fiance though cus he probly gets tired of the same position all the time.!
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I'm in the same boat. It's terrible. It's been like it since day one. I even asked my doctor about it and they said it was probably him hitting my cervix. We use lots of lube and lots of foreplay so it don't take as long so I don't have to endure it as long. If it's the same situation as mine you just have to try different positions where he can't go in as deep, for us that is only doggy style with my legs closed as much as possible so he can't go in as far. And I still get scared. If I move or open my legs and he ends up hitting it I jump away in pain. It was a problem for us because my husband also felt like it was his fault and then to go from a very sexual relationship to virtually hardly any at all was hard on him and made me feel guilty like I wasn't fulfilling my husband's needs.
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