Ughh Men:/ Or should i say boys!!

[JayleensProudMommy]

It seems like almost everyones man is acting like an *** lately! Just thought i could find some inspiring words from you ladies. I'm going to be 8 months on the 17th nd the only thing we have is a crib. I'm working my butt off at work making sure i get my 40 hrs every week even with appointments and getting my daughter in pre_k nd now moving,hopefully next week. While my "great boyfriend" just bbysits nd looks for work. Well last week he asked if he could borrow the last 400 of my check to go nd pay for probation. I did it b/c he promised to give it back plus interest this week from money he was supposed to be getting back.. Well this clown took the money and the only car we have nd my phone and left supposedly to handle wat he had to. Then at 5 am i get a call that he's locked up for dui,my car is impounded nd he was in the town i used to live in when he was arrested.. Like wtf?!? We already have a 4 yr old nd we've been doing so good except for the occasional mistake or selfishness.. But how can i sit here nd rely on someone that isnt even thinking abt his family? I had to borrow money to get my car out borrow more money b/c he left it with no gas. Nd then he has the nerve to ask me to get him out!! Seriously we already barely have a pot to **** in then u go nd screw everything up nd expect me to just worry abt nothing else but getting u out! I told him im done nd he just needs to worry abt his kids from now on, or whenever he gets out! Im just sooo disappointed in him!! Sorry ladies I've been trying my best to just get back on track n forget abt him but i wish he would just realize his family should come b4 being young nd dumb. I just dont get it! :'(

[Souel]

Me and my bf have been getting into it badly lately. He goes through my phone I have no friends I dnt go anywhere and yet he dsnt trust me I'm tired of arguing fighting and crying this isn't good for me my unborn or my 6 yr old. He's very controlling. I understand he's been hurt in the past but that has nothing to do with me. Just like I've been hurt I'm not taking it out on him. I tell him I'm lonely he says its because I'm not working o_O what tf does that have to do with me being alone in a relationship? Idk I'm tired would rather disappear then go through another minute of bs because he's insecure.

[crstl11]

Ktowne...me to I try doing the tough love thing but it makes me feel like a crappy parent...but hey at least he apologized...sort of haha

[JayleensProudMommy]

Thanks ladies. I just dont get it its like these guys get us pregnant and feel like they can do whatever they want and we'll be there no matter what b/c its their child too. Nope sorry buddy my kids deserve way better then a guy who does what's right when it benefits him! I know we're all going to go through fights and arguments but they should be about little stupid stuff and not alllll the time. Well i wish all of us preggos the best of luck on our journeys in life. And I'm also moving into a place with my sister next week so he's going to be so upset when he realizes he really lost us again.smh. My aunt just sent me something thst said when God takes something from your grasp he's not punishing you but merely opening your hands to receive something better! I love it:)

[Mzkay03]

Yes girl leave him,right where he is, u have babies to feed, and worry about, u do not have time to be responsible for his A$& too!!! Focus on u and the kids..he'll grow up one day and realize what he had. And it will be too late

[KTowne]

crstl11 me too!! My husband and I are always arguing over that! He was raised with a really strict, pick up your toys within 2 seconds and don't make me ask you again kind of family, well our son is 3, and not 5-6. He's getting better about not being so strict, but once in a while we get into it, and when he called me later he said I really was worried something was wrong so I overreacted, pft...if my kid falls down the stairs, I'm going to baby him! I don't care if he's 3 or 30! Haha

[sharonc2013]

Men suck I just recently moved in with my bf he has been a complete jerk I cant handle.his crap anymore he got mad at me for nothing was screaming at me and locked me out of my room my bed that I paid for not him I am seriously thinking about moving.in with my friend I can not bring a baby into this environment with once a week he flies off the handle

[WiggleWiggleWiggle]

Sounds like we all understand what ur going thru. My hubby and I have been fighting off and on for the past couple months and its usually the stupidest crap that he freeks out about then makes me upset, or he will purposly **** me off cus the ***hole thinks its funny when I get frustrated and mad. I dont get why guys think they have to be such dinks all the time especially when we r prego and our emotions are so much more sensitive. Some times I think that while we r prego and a guys is about to be stupid or a jerk that they would magicaly dissapear from us for a bit then come back after there stupidity. (if only) any way hang in there and only get what u really need for now and really u dont need a change table cus u got all kinds of places to change baby, I have been learning this since my bro and his wife had thier baby. Also u dont need a crib for the first couple months, a bassanet will work and its cheaper so if u need to or want to u could sell ur crib to get more money and get a bassanet and a few other things like diapers and get a new crib again later (i had a friend whos cousin did that cus they were low on money) im getting a bassanet so im not gonna get a crib for a few months to use the money where we need and save for a crib for later. Good luck to u and all the women having issues with thier significant others as well.

[crstl11]

Ktowne I know how u feel...my hubby says I baby our daughter cause when she falls and gets hurt I run to her.that is a constant arguement....anyways yea for the most part me and my hubby have argued for two weeks constant and he has enough nerve to say he hates it when I'm prego cause I'm a b***h...I could have run through him I said well if u wouldn't want sex then we wouldn't be in this position...haha...ugghh

[Nina159]

I think it is my bf got mad idk why makes.me like crap gf bc i used money to replace my carpet i dont want to live with bedbugs so he got mad cuz i waisted it instead for doc app and that money i made selling my puppys he expected to use it and not worke to get the reast so he blames.me for removeing the carpet    and wanting to add floor and not answering his call in the middle of my class wen im holding a knife and stormed of said i dont listen and his not home yet ughhhhh its a much longer story then this

[PriceFamily91611]

Yes I agree this must be national *** hole husband day or something we got into a big fight today also n he was like I'm not happy i want to split up, I'm crushed!!!! He's on his way home now to talk!!! I'm sooo freaking scared!!!

[Stephanithaog]

My problems are minuscule compared to yours. It's just my husband is getting mixed up with his unmarried/childless friends. He has a bunch of friends who are settled down, Buuut... Obviously they're busy doing the family thing. Siiiiigh.

[mrsh72911]

Ahh I know how your feeling. In the wholw 26yrs of my husbands life he decides to.hang with the wrong crowd, get into drugs and arrested while I was pregnant. Worst couple months ever, then.he spent whole month in.jail. he also spent A LOT of money we didn't have.

Good luck girl

[KTowne]

No kidding, mine was SO ridiculous, my son fell down the stairs today (like 10-12 stairs) and I freaked out, ran to him to make sure he was okay, and my husband said oh stop it he's fine, and I said don't tell me to stop it! He just fell down the stairs! And he slammed the door and left, pft..bite me, I'm more concerned about my son than you.. that's for sure! He called a few hours later and apologized but, what the hell, don't be a dink!

[JayleensProudMommy]

Yea i definitely am. I cant believe how selfish he's being. I know im not perfect but i definitely think about my kids b4 making any decisions. He's going to be in there a while because i refuse to take the money to feed my kids nd put it on his bond. He's grown he'll either fugure something out on his own or he'll be spending some time in jail. That's what i said everybody is having issues with their significant other. Its a shame all we do to make sure everyones happy nd we still get the short end of the stick!

[KTowne]

I would be livid!!! I wouldn't spend ANY money getting him out, at all. You need to focus on your kids, his stupid mistake got him there, and he can deal with that himself. I can't imagine someone being that selfish to do that to his pregnant girlfriend and kids. And how irresponsible!! I cannot STAND people that drive while drunk, because if someone were to kill my child or family member while drunk driving, I would make sure if they were still alive, they didn't see the light of day again, it's SO selfish to do. My husband and I got into it today too, so I think it's in the air!!