Hang in there. I know how frustrating it is. It took me 34 months to get pregnant I felt like it was never going to happen and still to this day my miscarriage is the most devistating this I have ever experienced. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers that this pregnancy is viable and this spotting will disappear quickly. I too got pregnant the month that someone very close to me passed away. A good friend of mine. We even shared the same birthday! I found out I was pregnant after 34 mths ttc a few days after my friend and i's birthday. I am now 27 weeks pregnant. I know it is hard to have faith and I swear the next person who told me "it happens when you least expect it" or "everything happens for a reason" was going to get knocked out by me. Sometimes life isn't fair, sometimes bad things happen to good people and it isn't fair in the least. I am so sorry :(
I'm sorry that your feeling so stressed out about ttc right now. I know how it is to when you start trying to get pregant after a miscarriage. It's harder every month and so the only advice I can offer is what worked for me. We had to take a few months off from ttc and focus our energy and attention on other things. My husband and I both needed a break and when we started again it was stress free. I even got pregnant on the second month we tried. If the pressure starts to take over your life then I suggest taking a break even if just for a month. Remember it can take the perfectly healthy couple several months to conceive. Keep at it and take care of yourself it will happen.
My bleeding is really heavy. I'm always changing a pad or like now I'm having to wash my clothes I slept in and my bed sheets. The cramps hurt. I'm just so tired now... sigh....
Thank you for your kind words ladies. They do mean a lot and I appreciate them very much.
Im sorry hun.it does get better I promise,we were alos trying for a long many years.lots of heartbreak on the way,you will get there.Hun if your bleeding heavy,and changing your pads often,more than 1 an hour.I would go to your er just to get checked over.unless you have period when this always happens,then you need to get checked.
It's new to me so I will check
You know what next time you test don't even bother with those stupid blue dye tests! I would want my money back for that one.