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am 20 weeks

I don't feel am as happy bout this baby as should be..its my 4 th very unexpected my youngest turns 8, in a week
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You probably can't imagine life without your 3 boys and once you have this baby you will feel the same. Remember children are blessings and people can't always have children when they want or ever so just count your blessings stay healthy and love yourself so you can love that precious life as well.
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She was saying her 4th was unexpected, not that all of them were unexpected:)

I know how you feel. It took until I got to see and hold my third that I was happy with her. She wasn't planned and I really didn't want to be pregnant when we got pregnant. My other half was excited and I wasn't....
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I AM GOING ON NUMBER 5 AND AM 38WEEKS PREGNANT IM SORRY UR IN THE SITUATION AND FEEL THAT WAY BUT U SAID THS IS UR 4TH UNEXPECTED PREGNANCY IM JUST CURIOUS AS TO Y U DNT USE BIRTH CONTROL THE OUTCOME OF NT USING IT USUALLY RESULTS IN PREGNANCY
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I am 32 as well aww 4 boys I have 3 boys not sure what this one is I go Oct 23 .. I wished I could hug you and tell you everything is ok you are strong and I know eventually you will be happy I think your still in shock
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Yes I found out on the 4 th that this will be boy #4 I have felt the baby move since early on...I just didn't want any more kids an thought I was done am 32
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I am so sorry you are having a hard time do you know the gender of this baby ? have you felt movement .. It's hard to be happy specially when your going thru stressful things I am having.issues in my relationship I got pregnant on birth control
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I haven't really felt happy at all..am going through a five yr divorce an custody battle over my other 3 boys..an now am pregent again wasn't suppose to be able to have any more..but now I feel bad cause am not like I was with my other three
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I am pregnant with number 4 I am almost 19 weeks my youngest is 4 I have my days where I am happy then most days not so much I guess I am more nervous than anything you know that will all change when you see your little one
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