gillianl & tarajanes, thank you so much. :) i'm relieved to know that these are normal. i'm still keeping the doctor's appt on saturday to be on the safe side. but thank you a lot, it made me worry free. :)
Not uncommon to have off periods.as for pregnancy as previous poster said intercourse is needed.
i usually get that before a period so i think it's pretty normal or my consultant wold have told me otherwise. You can't get pregnant from heavy petting/fingering only by intercourse. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Best of luck!!