confused

[destinyrose]

ok so im 15 years old and i think im pregnant im not for exact sure but i have had all the signs they mention and ill be a month the 1st if i am i have not told my mom but my fiance wants it bad and im jus really confused and my stress level is over the top and i cnt afford a doctor or a ride to a free apointment or even a test but i had sex the mornin of my period and he cam in me i started two hours later
plz help

[daves_baby]

umm you need to talk to your mum, i'm just wondering why a 15 year old would be having unprotexed sex in the first place... your just a baby yourself

[precious03]

If you only had unprotected sex the morning of your period, you're chances of being pregnant are very slim!  Don't get me wrong, it is always a possibility!  I think however, that if you are ready to be having sex, you should talk to your mom and see if she can and will take you in to get started on a birth control!  Having a baby is a wonderful blessing, but a responsibility that should not be entered into lightly!!

[Kim1989]

how do u have a fiance at 15?

[Mumita]

Oh god! you don't  even know the facts about sex and sexuality and you are trying to get pregnant??!! are you kidding?!?! Enjoy your youth and graduate high school first before having a baby.  There's a lot more you need to figure out about life before having a child and believe me there is a lot of bull **** that you don't want to deal with until you are older, don't try to grow up prematurely, being an adult is not what its cracked up to be.

[Kim1989]

"im currently engaged have a very very stressful homelife and pregnant
im outgoin and love to jus hang out and have fun... [More]
i am a lil country girl and have had a lot of diff expierences "

SO I TAKE IT YOU ALREADY KNOW FOR A FACT YOUR PREGNANT???

[luv2bmommy]

take an hpt if its positive most likely you are you need to make an appointment with planned parenthood if you do not have insurance, do this immediately because if youve never been to an obgyn there are precautions you need to take with your own health that may effect your baby. planned parenthood i believe is free but babies are NOT so if you are I would talk to the fiance about getting his stuff together quickly. Take good care of yourself and let me know how this goes for you. btw, you can get an hpt at the dollar store they arent more than $7, good luck to you.

[Kim1989]

im sorry i dont get it. youve only been with this guy 6 months, ur scarred hes cheated on you yet you two are engaged...you should really listen to Mumita. you really dont want to grow up too fast. and it sounds like thats what uve been wanted to do. its not as easy as you think and u said u dont have money enough to go to the apointment.....babies are very very expensive!

most women that i know dont ovulate on their period. so i dont think you would be pregnant however he came in you. my guess would be that your not pregnant. u said you really stressed so that might be why ur periods mia.. and your young. you period might not be fully regular yet

[luv2bmommy]

sorry i just reread your statement about not having the money for testing or an app. well you need to find out soon so ask your fiance or somebody to lend you some money. its important. also, you really should turn to your mother about this, after all she loves you and parents are there to help us when we are in trouble. most likely she will be angry and thats understandable, but this is bigger than you getting into trouble. if you are preggo there is a life that is depending on you, no matter what age you are. I was pregnant at 16 and had to tell my mother and let me tell you i was never so scared in my life. I was still a kid myself . it didnt go over too well at first but she and my father helped me.

[cntrygrlluvin]

To be honest, no one can tell you who to love... But, at 15, engaged, and possibly pregnant... that's a lot of stress... But, I really hope you can find out for sure.

Parents are here to support.. And at times when they don't seem like it... they are. Them getting mad is only proof they love us and want the best for us.

Although, every parent/child relationship is different.


Hope things work out for you. If your not already, you should get on birth control or start using condoms... If you can't afford the doctor appt, or get a ride anywhere, then how do you expect to raise a baby. I'm sorry if it sounds like your being judged.. your not.. But, your 15 years old. My cousin just had a baby at 15 in february. Her mother had to quit her job just so she can go to school. And, her mother said if she didn't want to have a baby that young then she should have thought about that b4 she had sex.

If she doesn't get up and go to school everyday, her mother is going to make her quit so she can stay home with the baby and her mother go back to work.

It's a tough job. But, I hope everything works out for you.