empathy

[ThreePlusOne2016]

I feel so sad for everyone i see on here going through a miscarriage. I know how it feels and its heart breaking. :( i lost my first at 6-7 weeks. And even though i wasn't with the guy anymore and didnt wanna be, it was still my first and i was gunna do what i needed to do for my baby. And i know it technically wasnt considered a baby yet but it was gunna be and it still hurts the same. It had a little heart. I saw it :( anyways i guess the point of this is just to say that my heart goes out to you ladies. But now we have little angels looking down on us. :) im 21 weeks now and im with a guy that really cares about me and i met him 17 days after my miscarriage. He really helped me get thru it a little better and hes still there for me when i break down about it. I truly believe that God has a reason for everything and a plan for everyone. So be strongg ladies. I know its hard and the pain never completely goes away but it'll get easier. Its all a part of the plan. <333 i just hope this makes anyone, even 1 person feel just a little bit better.

[Mackenzie1996FTM]

This was so nice and encouraging to read. My heart goes out to the girls dealing with miscarriages too. Personally I haven't had one but every time I hear someone had one it truly breaks my heart. God definitely has a plan for everyone :)

[bpam29]

I had a miscarriage in September :( it really makes me happy though seeing other acknowledge it. I think it is something more women should be open about to help others going through the same thing so thank you!

[FutureCadenasMommy]

I will let you know that this made me feel better. I turned 20 weeks Tuesday, and went to go figure out the sex today. We saw the ultrasound, there was no heartbeat and my baby measured 17 weeks. He or she also had edema (fluid build up/swelling) around it's little head. It makes me so happy to know that you're with someone that truly cares about you. If it wasn't for my fiance, I'm sure I would have completely lost it.

[ThreePlusOne2016]

It makes me happy that y'all feel a little better(: i was already an emotional person before pregnancy but now its like 10x more Lol i like helping others. Especially with a situation ive gone through because i know exactly how it feels. Mine unfortunately happened at home and i saw everything :( he/she is buried at my moms house. I plan on lighting a little candle and maybe buying a flower for him/her on Feb 1st. Which will be the anniversary of when it happened. To the last woman that commented, im so sorry for your loss :'( im glad you have your fiance to comfort you. They really are the best. I'll pray for you. Now your little angel is looking down on you <333

[Tavi12]

My first ended with a miscarriage at 20 weeks in October of last year it's still very hard to deal with its never easy losing a child no matter how old they are I feel for all the women currently going through it I know exactly how they feel

[Sue_2ndbabyontheway]

Thank you so much , what you said makes me truly happy to know that ppl actually care . I have had 3 miscarriges at 6 weeks and it broke my heart every time and some ppl had the nerve to tell me I didn't go threw nothing that it's ok when I miscarry that early Caz it's not painful !!!! I don't know how they can have the heart to say that !!! They were my baby's

[ThreePlusOne2016]

Im sorry for your loss :( im 21 weeks and ive heard of people losing their babies anywhere from 24-28 weeks so it still scares me that im not fully in the clear... but i had a bad feeling with my first so i kinda knew that something was wrong. No bad feelings with this one yet so im hoping my little girl will be okay <3

[ThreePlusOne2016]

Awh, thats awful. :( it does hurt. It hurts your heart and thats worse. Im sorry for your losses momma :(