feeling very low it almost 1 year after my misscarriage

[neasyc]

Just wanted to get somethings of my chest to see if it helps I dont know if any of you remember but this time last year I had a missed misscarriage on the 12 the day after my daughters birthday party I found out my baby at stoped growing and had a natural misscarriage the week after on the 18 nov
The last few days i have been very very emotional about it it does not help that im still bleeding after having my daughter and there is take that I may need a d&c next week which would be very very hard around the annivasary of my misscarriage when I had the misscarriage I passed the sac the hospital said if I wanted to I could bring it in to them and they would check it and stuff but I did not want to instead we burried it under a wee tree I still go every night and say prayers there
The one possitive that has came out of everything is my wonderful daughter who I got pregnant the following month Kayla she is now almost 7 weeks she and her sister really have pulled my through this I would be lost with out them thanks for listening it just helpes to put it down even if no one reads but thanks if you have

[justice6920]

Awwwww Hun Im sorry for your loss...... and time does heal... but of course you will always remember your little angel baby!

[neasyc]

thanks for your kind words

[LauraB78]

I know it doesn't help TODAY, but time truly dies heal all wounds.. You are in my thoughts and I hope your day gets better. If you ever just want to vent, PM me anytime!! I am sorry you have to go through this and we are all here for you!


BIG HUGS!

[neasyc]

thank you it means a lot to know their are people who will listen to me thanks

[laura1985]

i have been in this position myself. i have had 4 miscarriages and still do not have a child. i always think about my babies, in particular my first one, which was due 03/02/08. i always think about how old my baby would be, would it have been a boy or girl. there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about them. ive been seeing a therapist and she said that it is normal to be emotional around anniversaries.

you will never forget the baby you lost. it will always be apart of you, which is a good thing. i dont know if it helps, but i see my babies as my angles for myself and dh.

[Avanaar]

I am so sorry you, like many other women, have had to go thru the pain of having a miscarriage.  

I also had a missed miscarriage ...mine happened this past January ...so it was this month (Nov) of last year that I had initially gotten pregnant.  When hubby and I went to the pumpkin patch this year, I couldn't help but be sad that we were missing the baby we should have had in August.  Anniversaries and special family events are always hard, but I know that time will slowly heal the loss I feel.

It's good that you have your children to ease some of that pain you feel, but I know, like me, you will never forget your little angel!

[neasyc]

than you all i know i can really complain i have my 3 girls and the are the world to me and i know i will see my angel again someday and the are so many people her that are going through the same thing but thanks for yoour comfort and support it rell help to talk about it and have people lissen thanks

[addysmom]

I completely understand how you are feeling.  I have had three miscarriages, and EVERY year on the anniversary of ALL three of my babies passings...I have a hard time.  Whats really hard is 2 of those miscarriages were only 3 months apart.  It really took a toll on my relationship with my husband.  He was mourning the loss as well....so it wasn't easy.

It is a slight bit easier now that I have my daughter.  She does help ease some of the pain...but I still think about how many children I would have...and sometimes at Christmas, etc I think about what we are missing.  It is rough...and I do have to tell you that it DOES get easier, but you will NEVER forget your precious angels.  

Hope you feel better...and if you ever need to talk...PM me!

[neasyc]

tanks im feeling alittle etter today but we will see wat the 12 and 18 bring the 18 the day i had my miscarriage is also my nephews birthday so i have to go to his part and be all jolly and stuff its only fair on him it not his fault my my heart will be ripping in two and it was the day after my oldest daughters birthday party last year that we foung out the baby had stop growing her party this year is this sunday that will he hard the babywas also due on my mums birthday but my 3 kids will keep me busy and stop me thinking two much